Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Jennie Churchill----

Jennie Churchill

Lady Randolph Churchill
(1854-1921)
Daughter of: Leonard Jerome, the King of Wall Street & Clara Hall. (White: 35

Wife of:
1. Lord Randolph Churchill, mar 1874.
2. George Cornwallis-West, mar 1900, div 1914)
3. Montagu Phippen Porch (1877-1964), mar 1918.

Jennie's personal and family background.
She was the daughter of Leonard Jerome, " . . . a one-time lawyer and diplomat turned 'King of Wall Street.', and his wife Clara Hall. (White: 35)

Jennie's spouses & offspring.
1) Lord Randolph Churchill, mar 1874
2) George Cornwallis-West, mar 1900, div 1914,

"After John’s death in 1895, Jennie married George Cornwallis-West in 1900, called 'the handsomest man in England’, a Guards officer who was only two weeks older than Winston, then divorced him eleven years later. . . ." (Wikitree)

Married in 1918 Montagu Phippen Porch (1877-1964)

Jennie's spouses.
" . . . She had numerous lovers and admirers including King Edward VII and King Milan of Serbia. She married twice more, her second to a captain in the Scots Guards ended in divorce. A third husband was a British civil servant and they lived in Nigeria with the marriage lasting until her death. . . ." (findagrave.com

Jennie's physical appearance and personal qualities.
" . . . Strikingly beautiful, with amber eyes, dark-brown hair, full breasts and an irrepressible lust for life, Jennie was irresistible to men." (Daily Mail, 2008)

How others described Jennie.
" . . . Jennie had an extraordinary beauty. One who saw her described her as 'a dark, lithe figure . . . appearing to be of another texture to those around her---radiant, translucent, intense. A diamond star in her hair, her favorite ornament---its lustre dimmed by the flashing glory of her eye. More of the panther than of the woman in her look.' Margot Asquith, who met Jennie Churchill in Newmarket, also used the feline simile: 'She had a forehead like a panther's and great wild eyes that looked through you.'" (Dreadnaught: Britain, Germany, and the Coming of the Great War: 750)

Jennie's trail of lovers.
"She is said to have had more than 200 lovers, some of them younger than her own son. Strikingly beautiful, with amber eyes, dark-brown hair, full breasts and an irrepressible lust for life, Jennie Jerome was irresistible to men. Earls, lords, counts, even the randy old Prince Of Wales, the future Edward VII, lusted after her. And she willingly complied. When Edward was crowned in 1902, she sat in a special pew in Westminster Abbey, which society wits dubbed 'the loose box' on account of its rather promiscuous occupants. She shared it with half a dozen other royal mistresses, including Alice Keppel and Lillie Langtry." (mailonline.com, 2011, Dec 11)

A squadron of a 100, 200? Men for Lady Churchill.
"The Prince would have been entitled to regard an affair with Jennie as 'safe' because she was known to have a number of lovers, most of them younger than herself. Indeed, during her lifetime she was rumoured to have slept with more than a hundred men, though one must take allowances for gossip and plain jealousy. During the twentieth century this figure seems to have escalated to two hundred, which seems a little excessive , but there was nevertheless a small squadron of men either recognised by her intimates to have been Jennie's lovers, and/or about whom Jennie wrote to Leonie. . . ." (The Churchills: In Love and War: 164)

" . . . Jennie took lovers; one estimate was that she had two hundred. Society did not doubt that one conquest was Albert Edward, Prince of Wales. Jennie did not flaunt her lovers and Randolph---who had no choice---accepted them, although on one occasion he ordered the Prince of Wales out of his house and on another, he attacked one of her companions with his fists. . . ." (Dreadnaught: 751)

Jennie's list of lovers -- the known and the unknown.
". . . Apart from those already mentioned -- Charles Kinsky, Freddy Wolverton and others -- among the rest were Hugh Warrender, Henry de Breteuil, Baron Hirsch, Kincaid Smith, Paul Bourget, Sir Edgar Vincent, William Waldorf Astor, Lord Dunraven, Thomas Trafford, Norman Forbes-Robertson and Harry Cust. From her correspondence can be gleaned others whose full names are not given -- someone called Simon, and another -- an Italian -- called Casati. Then there was John Delacour, whom Randolph intended to cite as correspondent if they were to divorce, and a number of men in Ireland who were written about but unnamed in her correspondence. And besides her lovers, Jennie seemed to be able to attract and impress men of power and character who never hopped into her bed, and these -- Lord Salisbury, the Duke of Cambridge and Lord Cromer to name three -- were all grist to Winston's mill, contacts to be exploited to achieve his ends." (The Churchills: In Love and War: 165)

How many men and who were they? The 'known' lover.
"How could one possibly quantify such a figure, and who were all these men? The eminently readable William Manchester in The Last Lion gave a list of her lovers -- numbering fewer than twenty -- but no sources. He stated categorically: 'Her lovers are known [italics added] to include Kinsky, Henri Breteuil, Thomas Trafford, Baron Hirsch, Sir Edgar Vincent (later Viscount D'Abernon), Lord Dunraven, Herbert von Bismarck, Henri le Tonnelie (sic), Norman Forbes Robertson, Hugh Warrender of the Grenadier Guards, a cavalry officer named Kincaid Smith, the American Bourke Cockran, [Paul] Bourget, William Waldorf Astor, Harry Cust, a soldier named Taylor, a man called Simon, an Italian named Casati, and Albert Edward of the house of Saxe-Coburg . . . later King Edward VII.'" (American Jennie: The Remarkable Life of Lady Randolph Churchill: 123)

Jennie's 'known' but unmentioned lovers.
"It's an arbitrary list. Breteuil and Le Tonnelier are one and the same man. Major Caryl Ramsden -- a source of amusement for the Prince of Wales -- is not mentioned, nor is the shadowy John Delacour, named by Randolph in a threatened divorce case who flitted in and out of their lives, nor is 'Star Falmouth' believed by the Leslies to the the father of Winston's brother Jack, nor is Marion Crawford, the American author who lived mostly in Italy. Crawford's name has not survived in the gossipy letters between the sisters, but Clare Sheridan knew about her aunt's attraction for him. . . ." (American Jennie: 123)
Lady Randy's lovers were

Royal lovers.

"The Churchills' position in London society, and Jennie's ambitions for her husband and sons, brought them into regular contact with Prince Albert Edward, Queen Victoria's heir, known as Bertie. The Prince was renowned for his sexual appetite as a string of mistresses, and reportedly held wife-swapping parties in his London home. Jennie, a dark beauty who has also been characterised as a sexual adventurer, did not escape his attention. . . (A)s early as 1889, Lord Randolph had returned home to find the Prince and his wife together, scandalously unchaperoned, and angrily threw the Prince out. . . ." (Standard)

Milan I Obrenovic of Serbia 
Milan I Obrenovic of Serbia (1854-1901)
Lover in 1867.

"Milan I (1854-1901) of Serbia is one of a number of eastern European princelings who can be roughly equated with the King who figures in 'A Scandal in Bohemia'. He was known for his extramarital affairs, including one with Jennie Churchill, although no contraltos are mentioned. . . ." (Lives Beyond Baker Street)

"Jennie met one other large character in those weeks who was destined to play a role in the Jerome sisters' lives: the exiled King Milan of Serbia. When she first met Milan he had just abdicated in favour of his son after a fierce quarrel with and divorce from his wife Natalie. Jennie did not warm to Milan, finding him uncouth and extravagant. She described him in her memoirs as 'one of the most uncivilised beings I have ever encountered. A short, thick set man with inky black hair and moustache and of little or no education save what his natural intelligence helped him to pick up, he was notwithstanding, an agreeable personality.'" (American Jennie: 172)

Aristocratic lovers:
Derrick Westenra
5th Baron Rossmor
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Derrick Westenra, 5th Baron Rossmor (1853-1921)
Irish noble, soldier & author.

Husband of: Mittie Naylor, mar 1882 [Fam1:Peerage] 

" . . . (T)he [5th] Lord Rossmore (was) known as 'Derry,' being one of the brightest spots of the Prince of Wales's set, and author of some lively memoirs called Things I Can Tell.' . . . Born in 1853 . . . Derrick Warner William Westenra, fifth Baron Rossmore, peers out in his frontispiece photo with a stern, even gaze. He is a portly figure, white-haired and white-ascoted, with a subtly dandyish close-trimmed moustache curled up at the tips and the small, pronounced exclamation mark of a tufted goatee just under his lower lip." (Mapping Norwood: An Irish American Memoir: 121)

Baron Rossmor's other lover was:
1. Mary Cornwallis-West.
Edgar Vincent 
1st Viscount d'Abernon 
@Wikipedia
Edgar Vincent,1st Viscount d'Abernon (1857-1941) 
British financier, politician & diplomat.

Son of: Rev. Sir Frederick Vincent, 11th Baronet & Maria Copley Young 

Husband of: Lady Helen Venetia Duncombe, daughter of the 1st Earl of Feversham, mar 1890. 

Physical appearance & personal qualities.
"There was one who especially admired her at this time: Edgar Vincent, lately commissioned into the Coldstream Guards. Vincent, three years younger than Jennie, was a lowly subaltern, son of a rector, who happened to be stationed in Ireland at the time he first set eyes on her. Later he became well known as Sir Edgar Vincent, Viscount D'Abernon, financier, politician and diplomat, described by Margot Tennant (later Asquith) as among 'the four best looking men I ever saw'. He was not only handsome, but brilliantly intelligent, a linguist, superb horseman, gambler, witty raconteur and on account of his extramarital affairs, nicknamed 'the Piccadilly stallion'. . . ." (American Jennie: 88) 

"It was quite remarkable the number of important posts he held while yet a young man. When Financial Adviser to the Egyptian Government he was only twenty-five or twenty-six. He was exceedingly good-looking and knew it, exceedingly clever and knew it; perhaps a trifle spoilt , but that was the fault of the women. They are responsible for making men strut and preen themselves. As is usual with great brains, he was a bit of egotist, which is only natural. . . He began life in the Coldstream Guards. . . ." (Further Indiscretions by a Woman of No Importance: 340

Achievements & Honours.
Chairman of the Central Control Board (Liquor Traffic) (1915-1920); Member of Parliament (1899-1906); Baron D'Abernon (1914); British Ambassador to Germany (1920); Privy Counsellor (1920); Knight Commander of the Order of St. Michael and St. George, Knight Grand Cross (1917); Order of the Bath (1926); Viscount D'Abernon (1926).
Evelyn Boscawen
7th Viscount Falmouth 
Evelyn Boscawen, 7th Viscount Falmouth.

". . . "'His great successes were racing for he won Derbies. . . Jennie put her seduction entirely on him. You can calculate when they first met by when Jack was born.' In fact they had first met at Ascot races, shortly after Jennie was married. Seven years older than Jennie, he was a bachelor at this time and did not marry until he was forty in 1890. Jennie had many visits from the 'Star Man' and his name occurs regularly in the diaries and notes between the Jerome sisters. . . . " (Sebba: 98

Doubtful paternity.
"And so, if Randolph was not Jack's father, who might have been? The Leslie family believed it was Star Falmouth, a bug and broad military man with a thick moustache -- the sort of Physical characteristics that appealed to Jennie. She told her mother about his amazing moustache when she first described him. . . . " (Sebba: 97

Physical appearance & personal qualities.
". . . From an early age, hunting and racing seem to have been his passion. 'Handsome and stupid' is a description Anita Leslie uses, but she adds that he was not too stupid to become assistant military secretary to the Duke of Marlborough in Ireland and to keep Jennie Churchill's affection all through her life. . . . " (Sebba: 98)

Personal & family background.
". . . Evelyn Boscawen, the seventh Viscount Falmouth, was, like most of his family for generations before him, educated at Eton. They were descended from the Boscawens, an ancient naval family. But, unlike them, he did not pass into sixth form nor did he follow his father to Oxford. He was sent into the army class and then the Coldstream Guards, where he eventually became a colonel. . . . " (Sebba: 97)
Frederic Glyn, 4th Baron Wolverton 
Frederick Glyn, 4th Baron Wolverton (1864-1932)
Baron Wolverton 1888
Lover in 1892.

British banker & Conservative politician.
Vice-Chamberlain of the Household (Balfour Government (1902-1905).

" . . . By the summer of 1892 she had formed a new attachment, one of which Randolph did not approve. He admitted the relationship in private conversations with Natty Rothschild: 'I suppose you know she is living with Freddy Wolverton,' he told his friend. Natty immediately shared the news with Loulou Harcourt. Randolph asked Jennie not to go to a party which Wolverton was giving that July, preferring her to see Claude Lowther, an eccentric art collector whom he considered safer." (American Jennie: 186)

" . . . When Jennie became friendly with Freddy he was in his late twenties, titled and an immensely rich landowner. Jennie may never have felt the same profound love for Freddy. . . ." (American Jennie: 186)

" . . . [D]uring one of Kinsky's long absences from England, she embarked upon a new sexual relationship, this time with a young man called Freddy Wolverton who begged her to end her relationship with Kinsky. . . It concerned Freddy Wolverton. She had not written to him since leaving England, and when she and Randolph reached Hong Kong there had been a cable from him, advising in abrupt telegraphic jargon that he considered their relationship at an end. There was little she could do, as she escorted her dying husband around the world." (The Churchills: In Love and War: 111)

Lord Wolverton's personal & family background.
"Frederic, Lord Wolverton, was a nephew of Gladstone's friend and supporter, the late second Lord Wolverton, a man of great wealth and generosity who had been Postmaster General for a brief period in 1886. . . ." (American Jennie: 186)
George Cornwallis-West
George Cornwallis-West (1874-1951)
British officer

"Sometime that year (1898), Jennie met the strikingly handsome, George Cornwallis-West, a lieutenant in the Scots Guards. It is likely that they met at the home of General Sir Ian and Jean, Lady Hamilton... Victorian Society believed George to be the Prince of Wales's illegitimate son because George's mother, Mary (called Patsy in the family), had been his first lover---when she was only sixteen---and the Prince retained a high regard for her...." (Lee & Lee)
Henri Le Tonnelier
8th Marquis de Breteuil
@Wikipedia
Henri Le Tonnelier, 8th Marquis de Breteuil (1848-1916) 

" . . . As to the Marquise de Breteuil above, she was Marcelite Garner married at Pau to Henri Charles Joseph le Tonnelie (sic), Marquis de Breteuil, whose continued devotion to Jennie Jerome, another one-time Holy Trinity parishioner, long after her marriage to Lord Randolph Churchill at Paris in 1874, has been told." (The History of the American Pro-Cathedral of the Holy Trinity, Paris: 515)
Herbert von Bismarck
@Wikipedia 
Herbert von Bismarck, 2nd Furst von Bismarck (1849-1904)

" . . . Count Herbert Bismarck (was) an enormous man with an equally large reputation for womanising. Herbert Bismarck had just emerged from a very public divorce scandal involving a well-known singer. He and Jennie were immediately attracted and their names romantically linked for some years. 'A kindly man' is how Jennie tactfully recalls him in her Reminiscences. 'Although to English ideas he may perhaps have seemed a little rough and uncouth . . . he left many friends to deplore his premature death." (American Jennie: 166] 
Karl, 8th Prince Kinsky
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Karl Kinsky, 8th Prince Kinsk (1858-1919)
Austro-Hungarian ambassador to England 

Son of: Ferdinand Bonaventura, 7th Prince Kinsky & Marie von Liechtenstein.

Husband of: Elisabeth, Grafin von Wolf-Metternich zur Gracht (1874-1909)

Kinsky was everything she desired in a lover.
" . . . Charles Andreas Kinsky . . . was the man Jennie loved best all her life. He was everything she desired in a lover: linguist, pianist, brilliant sportsman and champion jockey, devastatingly good-looking heir to the fabulous Palais Kinsky in Vienna as well as to the Kinsky legend." (American Jennie: 120) 

The social hero of the hour.
"Jennie crowded her life that year with politics, the Prince of Wales, her husband's illness, her house, the pulsing whirl of an intense social life, and a new lover. During the summer of 1883, Count Charles Kinsky rode his own chestnut mare, 'Zoedone,' in the Grand National and became the first amateur ever to win that race---despite 14-1 odds. They toasted him in all the racing clubs, named drinks after him, made him the social hero of the hour." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill

First encounter of lovers emotionally made for each other.
"But Jennie also began an affair that would take her heart. She may have first met the handsome Count Charles Rudolf Ferdinand Andreas Kinsky in London in 1881, but it's more likely that they had met in Ireland earlier, when he was visiting with Empress Elisabeth of Austria. Born in Vienna, Kinsky was four years younger than Jennie---at five foot seven he was slight in figure, but extraordinarily handsome, with compelling blue eyes. He would become the talk of the town as the first amateur to win England's Grand National Steeplechase on his own chestnut mare Zoedone, and eighteen years later he would inherit the title of Prince Carl Kinsky. Since he was a fiery young man, impulsive and romantic, he and Jennie were emotionally made for each other." (Best Little Stories from the Life and Times of Winston Churchill: 380) 

Kinsky's physical appearance & personal qualities.
"Jennie saw much of the Prince of Wales during that time, and she saw even more of Count Kinsky. Kinsky was still the hero of the hour in England because of his victory in the Grand National. Every man wanted him at his table and a long waiting list of women wanted him in their boudoirs. He had not only brawn but brain. He was handsome, charming, a rising diplomat with a talent for words, a sparkling pianist, a man with an easy laugh and a firm grip. Jeannie's brother-in-law Moreton Frewen called Kinsky 'the best Austrian that ever was,' and printed his photograph in his memoirs. . . ." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill

The man she had loved most was like 'an opium' to her.
But nothing had shattered Jennie's illusions and darkened her future more than the sudden marriage of the man she had loved most, Count Charles Rudolf Andreas Kinsky. Jennie had once written that Kinsky was 'like opium' for her. A young Austrian diplomat of noble lineage, he was extraordinarily handsome, with the kind of good looks that won a woman without his making any effort. A brilliant young man, he wrote books about international diplomacy; musically talented, he played the piano excellently. He was charming, with old-world manners but a modern wit. Above all, he was a spectacular horseman and a national hero in Great Britain, the first foreigner to have won the Grand National on his own horse. And he was in love with Jennie, desperately so." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill

A love couched in the most guarded references.
"By coincidence, Jennie had also just begun the most romantic of her various liaisons, this with another great Victorian equestrian, Lord Randolph's friend, the handsome and elegant Hungarian Count Charles Rudolph Ferdinand Andreas Kinsky. Unlike Lord Randolph, Kinsky was a man of great physical strength and easy charm, and he became the hero of London society by winning the Grand National in 1886. The combination of horsemanship, European title, and great high spirits made the Count irresistible to Jennie, and their love affair became the great obsession of their lives. But as always, Jennie had her family and her position in society to consider. Her diary gives only the most guarded references to Count Kinsky." (The Private Lives of Winston Churchill

Kinsky's personal & family background.
"The handsome, dashing Charles Rudolf Ferdinand Andreas Kinsky was twenty-five---four years younger than Jennie---had served as honorary attached at the Austro-Hungarian Embassy in London since 1881, and had been made Imperial Chamberlain early in 1883. His father was Ferdinand, seventh Prince Kinsky, whom Jennie probably met when he toured Ireland with the Empress of Austria in 1879. Count Kinsky's mother was a Liechtenstein Princess, and the whole family was branched deep into the heritage of European history." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill

Affair's end & aftermath.
"From San Francisco, Jennie and Randolph, Dr. Keith, and the remaining manservant set off next for Japan. Randolph only became visibly more ill, more difficult to deal with. More angry scenes . . . and the second servant was sent home. After Japan, Randolph insisted that they visit Burma, which he had been so instrumental in annexing for the British Empire years before. And to top off all of Jennie's other miseries, she received a telegram from Count Kinsky announcing his engagement to Countess Elizabeth Wolff Metternich zur e Gacht. Jenny was devastated, and her subsequent letters to Clara shows it: 'I HATE IT. I shall return without a friend in the world & too old to make any more now.' And then to Leonie, while steaming to Egypt from India: 'I suppose Charles [Count Kinsky] has written you about his engagement he wire it to me---and from his last letter I wasn't expecting it . . . Oh, Leonie darling, do you think it is too late to stop it? Nothing is impossible.'" (Best Little Stories from the Life and Times of Winston Churchill: 393)
Luis Pinto de Soveral
1st Marquess of Soveral
the Adonis of Diplomacy
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Luis Pinto de Soveral, 1st Marques do Soveral (1851-1922)

Portuguese aristocrat & diplomat.
Minister of Foreign Affairs 1895

Son of:
Eduardo Pinto de Soveral, Visconde de Sao Luis & Maria da Piedade Paes de Sande e Castro.
William Waldorf Astor
1st Baron Astor
@Wikipedia 
William Waldorf Astor, 1st Baron Astor (1848-1919) 

"While being the Prince's current favorite mistress, Jennie also continued an affair with the recently widowed William Waldorf Astor, whose wife, Mary, had also died in 1894. Astor was a severe if distinguished-looking man with an excellent intellect and a keen interest in history... Astor wanted to marry Jennie, but she would not have him, despite his millions, as she found him to staid a character. . . ." (The Churchills: A Family Portrait: 87)
Windham Thomas Wyndham-Quin
4th Earl of Dunraven 
Windham Thomas Wyndham-Quin, 4th Earl of Dunraven (1841-1926)
Irish journalist, landowner, entrepreneur, sportsman & politician

Commoner lovers:
Bourke Cockran
@Wikipedia 
Bourke Cockran (1854-1923)
American politician. 

" . . . (W)ithin weeks of Randolph's death Jenny was already involved in a passionate fling in Paris. The man was Bourke Cockran, a brilliant silver-tongues orator, lawyer and American Congressman. Both had recently been widowed, and they spent all their time together. Leonie, also staying at Avenue Kleber that summer, was attracted to Cockran too, but she had generously 'stepped back' because 'poor Jennie' who had been so unhappy was in desperate need of a romance. Jennie's family were fully aware that she had an affair with Cockran that summer, and in any other newly widowed woman this would have been regarded as more than shocking. But in Jennie's case she had lived with Randolph platonically for so many years that her undeniable sadness at his death was not linked in any way to her sexual needs; and she was on the rebound from Kinsky. This latest affair between two tempestuous individuals was passionate but not necessarily very comfortable -- a niece described it as 'the clash of two cymbals'. But by the time Cockran returned to the USA in late summer the liaison had run its course; the couple parted fondly but without any deep regret, and would remain friends." [The Churchills: In Love and War: 117-] 

Caryl Ramsden (1868-1941)
British military officer

"In the meantime, Jennie had attracted another young lover, Major Caryl Ramsden, an officer in the Seaforth Highlanders. His name crops up in letters between Jennie and her sons from 1897. 'Beauty Ramsden,' as he was nicknamed, had been posted to Cairo, where an expedition was being assembled under Horatio Herbert Kitchener . . . Jennie thought she might visit Ramsden in Egypt. . . Jennie stayed with Ramsden at the Continental Hotel, Cairo. . . At the end of her stay, she left for Port Said, only to find out that her homeward ship had been delayed. Returning to the hotel, she hoped to spend another night with Ramsden, she entered his room without knocking and found him embracing Lady Maxwell, the wife of General John Maxwell. The row she kicked up was heard throughout the hotel. . . ." (The Churchills: A Family Portrait

Caryl Ramsden's other lover was:
1. Louisa, Lady Maxwell.

"Jennie's love affair that winter came to an unexpected end. . . When, on reaching Port Said, she was advised that her ship would be delayed for several days, she impulsively rushed back to Cairo hoping to spend a final few hours with Ramsden. On entering his hotel room unannounced, in order to surprise him, it was she who was surprised, for she discovered her lover in a compromising situation with Louisa, Lady Maxwell, wife of his commanding officer. . . . " (The Churchills: In Love and War: 162)

Casati
an Italian. 

Flower.
Henry Cockayne-Cust
Henry Cockayne-Cust (1861-1917)
English politician, editor & journalist. 

Hugh Warrender 
Grenadier Guards. 

" . . . In the summer, Jennie was seen out with a handsome, boyish, young officer of the Grenadier Guards, the twenty-seven-year-old Hugh Warrender. She arrived with him at Cowes Week on the Isle of Wight in August. . . Warrender was genuinely in love with her and would have married her. There is a group of photograph of Jennie, Leonie, Winston, Jack, and Hugh, taken that week. Warrender looks impossibly young." (Lovell: 86)

John Delacour (1841-?) 
He did not allow his King to choose 'his' friends for him:
"For Jerome and Randolph, as well as for the principal protagonists, the affair had permanent consequences. The Prince of Wales declared them personae non grata; not only would he not meet the Churchills at any house in London but he let it be known that he would not go to any establishment were they were received. One stalwart who loudly resisted the royal pressure was the Irish adventurer and former lieutenant in the 11th Hussars, John Delacour. Delacour, a debonair friend of Randolph's, who was to play another key role in Jennie's life a decade later, told the Prince: 'Sir, I allow no man to choose my friends.' It was a brave pose but perhaps not surprising for one who was no stranger to the divorce courts himself, having been named as co-respondent, but found not guilty of adultery, in May 1876." (American Jennie: 80) 

Personal & family background.
"John Delacour was a man surrounded by scandal since his birth in 1841. His mother, a Galway beauty called Josephine Handcock, was mistress of Ulick John de Burgh, fourteenth Earl and first Marquis of Clanricarde, a former ambassador to Russia and a notoriously cruel absentee Irish landlord. Their illegitimate son was passed around among relatives, his name changing from John de Burgh to John Delacour, until, aged eleven, his natural mother died and he inherited a fortune from her estates. But he gambled on cards and horses and by the time he was twenty-one had lost most of it having been forced to relinquish his inheritance for a mere 4,500 pounds. By the time he rallied to Randolph's support in 1876 he had sold his commission in the army and devoted himself to London society and clubs." (American Jennie: 80) 

"Passionless she was not. And John Delacour's involvement in this story is not necessarily what it appears, that he was another of Jennie's lovers, although they were undoubtedly close. It is possible that, by allowing himself to be cited as co-respondent, he was doing Randolph a favour. Delacour was a loyal if occasional friend who strikes an increasingly pathetic figure, short of funds, mentioned, if at all, in the correspondence for his poor health and financial difficulties. In 1890 Delacour eventually married a north-country heiress, Theresa Mary Towneley. Since his address was listed as 76 Eaton Place he cannot have been as poor as all that. Earl Dunraven describes him as 'a type of the idle rich (though he was not rich) that does not, I think, any longer exist'. . . ." (American Jennie: 149) 

John Strange Jocelyn.
" . . . When Winston was seven, his mother spent time on the Irish estate of Colonel John Strange Jocelyn, a famous horseman. Jennie became pregnant, and when the child was born named it John Strange Churchill . . . Winston's only brother." (Massey: 751)

Marion Crawford (1854-1909).
American playwright & novelist.

"Crawford, playwright and novelist, was a ladies' man of legendary and irresistible charm, a romantic in his life and writing who personified the American dream of escape. There were frequent rumours of a rift in his marriage. He was a friend and admirer of Vittoria Sermoneta, who may have introduced him to . . . . " (American Jennie: 323)

Maurice de Hirsch (1831-1896)
German philanthropist

"Hard-pressed Clara was now persuaded to host dinner parties for potential investors, one of whom was Baron Moritz de Hirsch, the Paris-based Jewish philanthropist who was also close to the Prince of Wales. Jennie had known the Baron and his wife Clara for some time, but it was not until the 190-s that his name appears regularly in the correspondence. De Hirsch is one of those 'known' to have been one of Jennie's lovers, accordting to William Manchester in The Last Lion. The evidence is flimsy but the idea is not impossible. . . ." (American Jennie: 176)

Norman Forbes-Robertson.

Paul Bourget.
French novelist

Ronald Kincaid Smith
British cavalry officer.

" . . . Another of Churchill's companions on the voyage was Captain Ronald Kincaid-Smith, who was rumoured to have been romantically attached to Winston's mother. . . . " (Churchill's First War: Young Winston at War with the Afghans: 103)

"Jennie remembered to send Winston the photos he requested of her 'as the wicked 'Theodora,'' and she also asked him to give one to Kincaid-Smith, a handsome Captain in Winston's outfit with whom she had been corresponding. Winston knew about this correspondence and perhaps was demonstrating a pang of jealousy when he deprecated Kincaid-Smith's polo plaing, which, he said, 'has not got the dash of younger men.'" (Jennie: The Life of the American Beauty: n.p.)

Simon.

Taylor
a soldier.

Thomas Trafford.
"Miss Leslie seems at least in part motivated in her writing by a wish to correct certain inferences made in Mr. Martin's earlier book about Jen nie, not listed in her bibliography. Yet she does not convincingly contradict any of Mr. Martin's fascinating innuendoes such as that John Strange got more than his name from Lord Jocelyn, or that when Lord Randolph took his favorite traveling companion, Thomas Trafford, to India, Jennie was “bitter about being left behind.” The whisper, Mr. Martin adds, “was that Randolph Churchill was homosexual.” Miss Leslie indeed tries hard to set the record straight, but succeeds only in applying a not very convincing coat of white wash to the ebullient Jennie who might, or might not, have been grateful to her great niece such a service." (NYT)

Monday, November 25, 2019

Shared Relationships----

ROYALS.
August II of Poland, shared his lover, Magdalena Sibylla von Neitschütz, Grafin von Rochlitz, with his brother, Johann Georg IV of Saxony.

"In 1687, when Billa was only 12, none other than Christian August von Haxthausen fell for her, with the intention of marrying her when she was a little older. We know that Haxthausen died in 1696, but none of the source give the date of his birth; it is hard, however, to think of him as less than 30, when he was appointed as Augustus's Hofmeister in 1685. Now, two years later, the courtier charged with overseeing our hero's educational and spiritual development was seeking the hand of a child, whom by his own account he at sometime bedded. For in June 1694 Stepney decorously reprised Haxthausen's claim that John George did not have Billa 'to himself, but he had the favour of being His Highness's taster'. There were certainly other 'tasters' throughout the relationship. Inevitably Augustus is identified as one, with the two brothers allegedly crossing swords for the nymphet's favour. When the Elector learned of their daggers-drawn behaviour, both princes were banned from any other contact with her. So while Augustus and Haxthausen travelled to France that May, John George was watched. Despite this he met clandestinely with Billa. When their meetings were discovered, she and her mother were banished from court and they left for their estates in Lusatia'." (Pleasure and Ambition: The Life, Loves and Wars of Augustus the Strong: 19)

Stanislaw I Leszczynski of Poland had a relationship with sisters:

1. Maria Ludovica Jablonowska, Princesse de Talmond
2. Katarzyna Dorothea Jablonowska, Comtesse de Tenczyn Ossolinski

"The story of Charles Edward's stormy romance with the forty-seven-year-old Polish princess, a cousin of the Queen of France (as well as, more distantly, of Louise and the Prince himself) must be left of another time. She was a woman of legendary beauty and wit, equally fluent in Polish and French. Her father, Jean-Stanislas Jablonowski (1669-1731) was Palatin de Russie (Ruthenia) and an uncle of King Stanislas Leszczynski. Her mother, whom we have already met in Lvov (Leopold), died there in 1744. Young Marie-Louise Jablonowska had a younger, less attractive sister, Catherine-Dorothee, who married the exiled Polish King's grand maitre, Francois-Maximilien, Comte de Tenczyn Ossolinski in 1732, but soon became, with the richly subsidized blessing of her aging husband, the mistress of Stanislas himself. Playing mistress of Stanislas had actually been one of Marie-Louise's own roles when, as Princess Palatine de Russie, she had gone to live at Chambord in 1727 where the exiled father-in-law of Louis XV had taken up his official residence two years before. There, she became as well the public mistress of a handsome and dashing young officer, Charles-Francois-Marie de Custine, the celebrated Chevalier de Wiltz. Stanislas generously took it upon himself to find a suitable match for Marie-Louise, but her situation had become so notorious that one initially interested suitor, Louis-Henri de Bourbon, M. Le Duc himself, soon lost interest. Louis XV's father-in-law next tried to marry her off to the Comte d'Evreux, but again the lady's reputation cost her a golden opportunity. Less brilliant success came at last when the King of Poland's choice fell on Anne-Charles-Frederic de la Tremoille, , Comte de Taillebourg, the son of Frederic-Guillaume, Prince de Talmont. At nineteen, Anne-Charles-Frederic was ten years younger than the experienced Marie-Louise, and his family hesitated, but with the help of a generous dowry from Stanislas and a persuasive ducal title thrown into the bargain by the King of France, the marriage took place on 29 October 1730. Unfortunately for the tranquility of the husband (whose tastes in later years seem to have run more to young men and extremely austere devotional exercises), the new Duchesse de Chatellerault made not even a token effort to live up to her marriage vows. Her liaison with the gallant Chevalier de Wiltz continued without interruption as did, for a time, her affair with Stanislas. At the end of the War of Polish Succession, Talmont was enticed back to her cousin's new [place?]."" (The Love of a Prince: Bonnie Prince Charlie in France 1744-1748: 219)

Edward, Prince of Wales (future Edward VII of Great Britain) shared his lover, Beryl Markham, with his brother, Prince Henry, Duke of Gloucester

" . . . Markham's affairs with Edward, the Prince of Wales, and Henry, the Duke of Gloucester, Ms. Trzebinski adds, were essentially stratagems to get Finch Hatton to pay more attention to her . . . ." (NYT

Louis, Dauphin of France had the Moreau sisters as his mistresses.

1. Francoise Moreau (1668-1743)
2. Louise Moreau (1668-1692)

"The amorous adventures of 'les filles de l'Opera' were not exactly private: they were celebrated in popular chansons of the time, written by musicians as famous as Francois Couperin, the king's organist and the royal family's harpsichord teacher. He had a particular fascination for Fanchon Moreau---'la tendre Fanchon,' as he called her in the title pf pme pf his harpsichord pieces. She was one of Lully's last discoveries, and she created roles in several of his final operas, as well as in post-Lullian works like Charpentier's Medee. Her credentials as an opera singer were not in doubt, but her greatest fame, alas, was as the 'lady between the sheers' immortalized in Couperin's ballad La femme entre deux draps. Fanchon escaped the convent because she had friends in gih places---she was the mistress of the dauphin, the king's son and heir, though she had very nearly forfeited his protection in an identity mix-up. She was the victim of the Paris Opera's custom of listing singers by their second names only---cast lists invariably referred t 'Mlle Moreau,' 'Mlle Desmatins,' and so forth. Unfortunately, there were two Mlles Moreau. Fanchon had an older sister, Louison, who also sang at the Opera, and it is often hard to tell from the records which sister sang which part. It also meant, as the dauphin discovered, that letters were addressed to Mlle Moreau could end up in the wrong hands. One of the co-directors of the Opera was asked to invite Fanchon to a liaison with the dauphin. By mistake, the letter went to Louison, and she, probably quite innocently, accepted the invitation. Indeed, she became the dauphin's mistress for a time---until the mistake was rectified and her more glamorous sister took her place." (Angels and Monsters: Male and Female Sopranos in the Story of Opera, 1600-1900: 25)

Elector Ernst August of Hannover, his son, George I of Great Britain and grandson took their favorites from the same family -- the Platens.

"The first Elector, Ernest Augustus, had introduced into Hanover the French custom of royal mistresses. He, his son George I, and his grandson, took their favorites from one and the same family. For nearly one hundred years, the family of Platen supplied this article of royal luxury. First, there was the 'wicked Countess Platen,' to whom we shall presently have occasion to return; her daughter, the Countess Kielmansegge, who subsequently was created Countess of Darlington; her step-daughter, the younger Countess Platen; Frau von der Bussche, a sister of the wicked Countess Platen, and a fifth lady, Countess Walmoden, afterwards created Countess of Yarmouth, who was grand-niece of the same 'wicked Platen.' (The Eclectic Magazine, Volume 30: 519)

Franz Josef I of Austria was said to have had a love affair with Helene Baltazzi who was the mother of Marie Vetsera, the mistress of Franz Josef's son Crown Prince Rudolf of Austria. (Alexander Palace)

George I of Great Britain shared his lover, Luise von der Schulenberg, Grafin von Delitz, with his son, George II of Great Britain, and grandson, Frederick Lewis, Prince of Wales.

Three Generations of Lovers: "King George liked to go to Germany because of his estates in Hanover, and a mistress. She was Madam D'Elitz and was lover to George's father and had even been to bed with his own son, Frederick. She also counted around a thousand lovers in her time. Then George, on returning to Hanover, fell for a married woman." (Bayliss: 104

"This Madame d'Elitz was a Schulemberg sister to my Lady Chesterfield---a very handsome lady, though now a little in her decline, with a great deal of wit, who had had a thousand lovers, and had been catched in bed with a man twenty years ago, and been divorced from her husband upon it. She was said to have been the mistress to three generations of the Hanover family---the late King, the present, and the Prince of Wales before he came to England, which was one generation more than the Duchess of Valentinois (mistress of Henry II) could boast of in France. The present King had quitted Madame D'Elitz for Madame Walmoden, upon which a quarrel ensued between the two ladies, and the King thereupon had turned Madame D'Elitz out of the palace the year before; just therefor when the King set out for Hanover this year, Madame D'Elitz set out for England, where she now was with her aunt and sister, the Duchess of Kendal and Lady Chesterfield." (Memoirs of the Reign of George the Second, Vol. 2: 100)

"Anna von der Schulenburg was born (Jan, 1692), the illegitimate daughter of George I, King of England (1714–1727) by his longtime mistress, the Duchess of Kendal, but she was registered as the child of Friedrich Achaz von der Schulenburg (1647 – 1701) and his wife Margaret Gertrude (1659–1697) the elder sister to the duchess of Kendal, and her own maternal aunt.

Anna was married (1707) to Ernst Augustus Philip von dem Bussche-Ippenburg (1681–1761), an officer in the army at Zelle in Brunswick. The marriage remained childless and the couple were divorced (1714) due to her own adulterous behaviour. Her father caused the Emperor Karl VI to create her Countess von Delitz (1722) by which title she was known the last five decades of her life. According to Lord Hervey the countess was the mistress of both George II and of his son Frederick Louis, Prince of Wales, her half-brother and nephew, which charge appears to be no more than scandalous gossip. Countess von Delitz died aged eighty-one, and interred with her mother in the South Audley Street Chapel in London." (A Bit of History) [Fam1]
    Henri IV of France was the lover of two sisters:

    1. Gabrielle d'Estrees (in 1591-1599)
    2. Juliette-Hippolyte d'Estrees (in 1599)

    ''The Mme. de Balagny included in the above list bore the Christian name of Diane, and is said to have been slightly deformed. Be that true or not, she secured as her husband a Marshal of France, Alexandre Jean de Montluc de Balagny, a son of the Montluc who massacred so many Huguenots, and as her lover an equally important personage, Jean de la Valette, Duke d'Epernon, sometime Grand Admiral of France and Colonel-General of the Infantry of the Kingdo m. We mention her again, however, more particularly because she suggested to D'Urfe' the character of Delie — or, as we should say, Delia — in his Astrec, and is also alleged to have been, for a brief period, a mistress of Henri de Navarre before he definitely fixed his affections on her younger sister, who is designated in our list under the name of Beaufort. She acquired, indeed, the title of Duchess de Beaufort as well as those of Lady of Liancourt and Marchioness de Montceaux, but it is as La Belle Gabrielle that she has remained famous in song, romance and history." (The Favourites of Henri of Navarre: 118)

    Leopold Eberhard von Wurttemberg had four sisters as mistresses:
    1. Sébastienne Curie
    2. Polixène Curie
    3. Henriette Edwige Curie
    4. Élisabeth Charlotte Curie

    Infanta Eulalia of Spain shared her lover, Antonio de Vasconcellos, with her son, Luis Fernando de Orleans y Borbon.

    According to the books about him I’ve read his relationship with his mother Infanta Eulalia had its ups and downs. When Luis Fernando and his brother Alfonso were at a boarding school in England he wrote many letters to her mother expressing his devoted love and dreams about living with her. When he left school his relationship with his mother deteriorated and he went to live to Paris with his father Antonio d’Orléans and his lover Carmela. Eulalia hated Luis Fernando’s idea of being an actor and joining a theatre company in America. She wanted him to take charge of the estate he had inherited in Castillejo and didn’t like it when Luis announced his intention to stand for Deputy in Valencia. Despite her liberal attitude and thinking, Eulalia never accepted Luis’ homosexuality. Luis used to comment about his problems with his good friend the Countess Blanche of Clermont-Tonnerre: “My father Don Antonio detests me and doesn’t give me any money. Keep your millions, I tell him. My mother hates me, every time I have a friend she tries to take him away, she’s jealous of my success.” They shared the passion for handsome men. Luis Fernando’s inseparable companion, a Portuguese called Antonio de Vasconcellos, had also been Eulalia’s lover. At one time, when he was seriously ill, both mother and son took care of him. It seems their relationship improved over the years. In the late 20s, when Luis Fernando was determined to marry a millionaire who let him re-enter in France (he had been expelled in the mid-twenties by the French authorities and stripped from his title of ‘Infante’ by his cousin King Alfonso XIII in 1924) Eulalia took an active part. She announced, at the Hotel Plaza in Paris, the wedding of Luis and Mabelle Gilman, a former American actress who lived at a French Chateau thanks to the millions she got after her divorce from William Corey, a steel magnate. Luis and Mabelle (eight years his senior) had been good friends for a long time but the marriage never took place apparently for Mabelle’s refusal to leave her chateau for a more modest place in San Remo, Italy where Luis was living. A year later, Luis Fernando announced his marriage to a richer (an older) woman, Marie Say, Princess Amedée of Broglie who was 32 years his senior (!) Marie decided to announce the wedding to her mother-in-law, Infanta Eulalia, with a letter ending in the following sentence: “I will always be your respectful and devoted daughter” (The ‘daughter’ was seven years older than her ‘mother’). Here’s a link of some interesting stories about Luis Fernando de Orléans L'Enfant terrible."

    Hedwig Elisabeth of Holstein-Gottorp, Queen of Sweden, had the Fersen brothers as lovers. She was the wife of Karl XIII of Sweden.

    "Her marriage was distant and both she and her spouse had extramarital affairs. Charles paid more attention to his lovers than to her: at the time of their marriage, he was in the middle of his relationship with Augusta von Fersen. Her intimate friendship with countess Sophie von Fersen inspired rumors of bisexuality which, true or not, were repeated throughout her time as royal Duchess, by both Francisco de Miranda in 1786 and later by Frederica of Baden. From 1783, she had a long term relationship with Count Carl Piper, whom she herself referred to as her lover in her secret correspondence to Sophie von Fersen. Among her alleged lovers was Count Axel von Fersen, alleged lover of Marie Antoinette. It is not known when her affair with Axel von Fersen occurred, it is only known that she wished to resume it when Fersen returned to Sweden after the death of Marie Antoinette and that Fersen refused to do so. It has been suggested that this was merely a temporary affair which occurred during the stay of the royal court at Gripsholm Castle in the summer of 1784. She also had a relationship with Axel von Fersen's younger brother, Count Fabian von Fersen. Her affair with Fabian von Fersen is assumed to have started in the late 1780s was discontinued with the marriage of von Fersen in 1797. It was rumored at the time that the pregnancy which ended in a miscarriage in 1792 (which was referred by Hedvig Elisabeth Charlotte as her first real pregnancy) was caused by Fabian von Fersen. The rumors of her extramarital affairs were given a lot of attention during her second pregnancy in 1797, who produced a stillborn daughter. The next year (1798) she gave birth a son who lived only six days. Ultimately, she was unable to have living children."She was indifferent to the affairs of her spouse as they gave her the opportunity to live more freely herself, and she expressed her frustration when her husband's lack of lovers made him more focused toward her, which exposed her to his suspicions and accusations: ""As long as he had his mistresses, things were better, but since the last one was exiled because she allowed herself to be insolent towards the King, and he has not provided himself with a new one, his temperament has grown worse, and I have daily been subjected to outbursts because of this, which has occurred even in front of the staff. This hostility have increased so much during the winter that I have reached the end of my patience." She expressed her view upon love and sexuality and when Gustav III studied certain letters after his late mother in the company of others, as they contained information regarding the alleged love affair between his mother Queen Louisa Ulrika av Count Carl Gustaf Tessin, and the complaints from Adolf Frederick, King of Sweden over the attention Tessin gave his consort: " It is undoubtedly so, that these papers can give reason for reflection; it does lead me to consider how easily a poor woman is judged and how unfortunate it is to have a heart filled with emotion, for a tender nature is a misfortune as well as a blessing, and no human can resist the power of love, even though friendship must at times be the comfort for the wise one, yes, nothing is more true than the inscription who were once placed upon the image of God of Love: 'Eho you are, her is your true master, he has been, he is and always will be.' You have to admit, my dear friend, that woman is truly an unhappy creature: while men have their complete freedom, she is always burdened by prejudice and circumstance; you may say, that men also have that hindrance, but it is not in equal degree. I am convinced that most women would ask for nothing more than to be transformed to men to escape the unhappy bondage and enjoy their full freedom." (Wikipedia)
      "Hedvig Elisabeth Charlotte was the daughter of Duke Frederick August I of Holstein-Gottorp and Princess Ulrike Friederike Wilhelmine of Hesse-Kassel. In 1774, she married her Charles, Duke of Södermanland, brother to the Swedish king Gustav III. Charles’s father King Adolf Frederick of Sweden was the brother of her father Duke Frederick August, making them first cousins. It wasn’t a conventionally happy marriage. Both parties had extensive extra-marital affairs and they never had any children. On top of this, Hedvig Elisabeth Charlotte was a keen intrigue-maker and occasionally did not align her own political sympathies with those of her husband’s (she was even suspected of plotting against him and planning a coup in 1810). But she seems to have derived a great deal of pleasure from life. She enjoyed jokes, dancing and theatre, and had lots of lovers, including a brief fling with Axel von Fersen and a longer affair with his brother Fabian von Fersen (note that she was also BFF with their sister Sophie). She was a spirited and intelligent woman, and her diaries are a fabulous and very entertaining source on late 18th century court life in Sweden." (The Rags of Time

      Louis XIV of France enjoyed the Mancini sisters as his mistresses.

      1. Olympe Mancini, Comtesse de Soissons (in 1654-1657; 1660-1661)

      Louis XV of France had the Mailly sisters as his mistresses:

      1) Diane-Adelaide de Mailly-Nesle, Duchesse de Lauraguais (in 1742-1745)

      2) Louise-Julie de Mailly-Nesle, Comtesse de Mailly (in 1733-1729 & 1741-1742)

      3) Marie-Anne de Mailly-Nesle, Duchess de Chateauroux (in 1717-1744);

      4) Pauline-Felicite de Mailly, Marquise de Vintimille (in 1739-1741).

      Louis XV of France had an affair with sisters:

      1. Marie-Louise O'Murphy (in 1753-1755)
      2. Brigitte O'Murphy (in 1755)

      Marguerite of Valois, Queen of France.

      Moritz von Sachsen (Maurice of Saxony) had an affair with two sisters:
      1. Genevieve Rinteau
      2. Marie Rinteau de Verrieres (1730-1775)

      Napoleon I, Emperor of the French, shared his lover, Marguerite-Josephine Weimer, a French stage actress, with his brother Lucien Bonaparte.

      "The beauty of Mademoiselle Georges made a deeper impression on him [i.e., Napoleon I] than the talents of Mademoiselle Duchesnois. As in the case of the latter, he wished to judge her at close quarters, but in this instance he did not keep her waiting long. She was very beautiful. and in a mistress beauty is the sole desideratum; so, at least, Napoleon thought. 'Take my word for it, Lucien,' he afterwards said to his brother, 'it is not so necessary that our wives should be good-looking; but with a mistress it is different. A plain mistress is a monstrosity; she would fail essentially in her principal, or rather, her only duty.'

      "This conversation between the brothers was not very edifying, but then neither was their conduct. Mademoiselle Georges before taking the Consul's fancy had caught this rascal of a Lucien's eye. He had been anxious to make her his mistress and with that end in view had entered upon somewhat discreditable negotiations with Mademoiselle Raucourt, under whom she had studied, with the object of getting her to plead his cause with the pretty debutante. He had even given her, as an earnest of his intentions, a recherche supper and a magnificent present. It is further recorded that after the supper in question a contract was drawn up in regular form had been duly signed, whereby Mademoiselle Raucourt undertook to deliver her young pupil into the arms, into the hands we should say, of thus satyr of a Lucien, the consideration being a hundred thousand francs down and an annuity for her lifetime of ten thousand.

      "Lucien therefore had ample knowledge of his subject when he told Napoleon that Mademoiselle Georges was one of the most beautiful women in Europe. 'You might,' Napoleon retorted, 'have said, I think without much risk of error, the most beautiful woman.' . . . ." (The Love Affairs of Napoleon: 126)

      Russian ballerina


      Had a relationship with three Romanov cousins.
      1) Nikolai II of Russia (in 1891-1894)
      2) Sergei Mikhailovich of Russia (in 1894-1918)


      "At St. Petersburg ballerina Matilda Kschessinskaya had been the mistress of Nicholas II before he was married, after which she latched on to Nicholas's cousin Grand Duke Sergei Mikhailovich, and later was shared by this magnanimous lover with another, still younger Romanov, Grand Duke Andrey Vladimirovich. She had a son whose paternity was unclear, and while she had a joint household with Grand Duke Sergey in St. Petersburg, she travelled abroad with Andrey and regularly stayed at the Riviera villa that he bought for her. In her old age Matilda recalled: At the beginning of the Passion week we went to Cannes as usual and Andrey and Vova [her son] went to our beautiful church. We stated at the newly built hotel Carlton. On Easter Sunday, after the church service, I arranged the traditional reception in the large dining room of the hotel. I ordered paskhas and Easter breads in the local bakery Rumpelmeyer. The owner was a Mecklenburg German, but he baked Easter breads wonderfully because the Russian colony in the south of France was numerous and wealthy. When we returned to the hotel from the church, the tables were set.'

      Kshessinskaya's guests at this feast were other kept women and bachelors or married men who came without their wives. Much as she tried to widen her social circle, she was not accepted, and her grand dukes went into society alone." (The Summer Capitals of Europe, 1814-1919: 79)

      ARISTOCRATS.

      George Campbell, 6th Duke of Argyll.
      Had an affair with sisters:
      1) Amy Wilson.


      " . . . In 1676, again ambassador in France, he had simultaneous affairs with the Duchess of Cleveland and her cloistered daughter, the Countess of Sussex. Denounced to King Charles II by the outraged mother (who claimed that Montagu had disparaged the king), Montagu was dismissed from his posts in 1678, when he returned to England without leave in order to defend himself. . . ." (Britannica)

      "Perhaps even these measures weren’t enough to subdue the wilful Anne. The next reference to her comes two years later when in 1678 we find her in a French convent, living within reach of her mother Barbara who had retired to Paris, and also Ralph Montagu, Ambassador to France. Courtier, diplomat and all round wheeler dealer Ralph Montague was more than twenty years older than seventeen year old Anne and had also been Barbara’s lover, when he seduced and abducted the young Lady Sussex." (Good Gentlewoman)

      Hortense ManciniDuchesse de Mazarin had a relationship, in 1676, with father-and-daughter, Charles II of England, and Anne Lennard, Countess of Sussex.

      "Her illegitimacy notwithstanding, Lady Anne was very eligible, and at thirteen, she was married to the twenty-year-old Thomas Lennard, 15th Baron Dacre and Gentleman of the Bedchamber, who was created Earl of Sussex on the marriage. Lennard was an extravagant spender and gambler, and their marriage was an unhappy one. After two years, when Anne was fifteen, she began a lesbian liaison with Hortense Mancini, duchesse Mazarin, who had fled her own abusive husband, Armand Charles de la Porte. This liaison was not only shocking to the royal court, but very inconvenient in that King Charles was also conducting an affair with ‘the Mancini’ at the time." (History & Women)

      "Not only did Hortense bed the King, but rumour had it, his daughter Anne as well. Unhappily married for two years and still only fifteen years old, Anne fell for the older woman’s charm and sense of fun. They took fencing lessons together and once took part in a public match in St James’s Park wearing only their nightgowns." (Good Gentlewoman)

      Blanche Carrega, Baroness Keudelstein, shared her lover, Armand Guerry de Maubreuil, Marquis d'Orvault (1784-1866), with her sister, Jenny Carraga. 

      "With respect to Bianca the case was different. She smiled on Maubreuil after his return from the wars; she found him interesting, and allowed him to understand so. He was aware that she was admired by both Jerome and the Prince of Wurttemberg, but she gave him reason to believe that she cared far less for them than she did for him; and he doubtless felt somewhat vain at having supplanted those two royalties in the affections of so beautiful a creature. But, after a time, he discovered that if he were preferred to the King and the Prince, there was another who was preferred even to himself, that being the young Creole, Lasserre." (The Wild Marquis: 43)

      ". . . (T)he Baroness was singularly deficient in gratitude for her husband's advance and the affection shown to herself. True to her original character in Genoa, she did not remain faithful even to the King. In the course of her straying, she formed an acquaintance with an officer in the Westphalia Light Cavalry, the Marquis Armand Gerri de Maubreuil, certainly the greatest ruffian in the country, though so far his public career had been honourable. Maubreuil was twenty-seven years old when he entered Jerome's service. He had done well in the recent war, and the King made him one of his equerries, and put him in his cavalry. His relations with the intriguing Baroness abruptly ended his first term at Cassel. (The Burlesque Napoleon: 270)
        George Campbell, 6th Duke of Argyll, had the Wilson sisters: 
        1. Amy Wilson
        2. Harriette Wilson, as his mistresses.

        "Argyll is well-known for his affairs with the two of the Wilson sisters, renowned members of the demimonde. Harriette (1786-1845) commented that Argyll was considered very handsome but unable to remain faithful to anyone for long. Harriette's own sister, Amy, became pregnant by him while was still together with Harriette. She threw a fit and they parted. . . ." (Rogue Tales of Romance, Adventure and the Paranormal)
        Grigory Potemkin

        Grigory Potemkin, Prince of Taurida had the Engelhardt sisters, as his mistresses:

        1. Nadezhda von Engelhardt (in 1759-1832)
        2. Varvara von Engelhardt (in 1777-1779)
        3. Aleksandra von Engelhardt (in 1779)
        4. Yekaterina von Engelhardt (in 1779).

        "Elena Aleksandrovna, the sister of Grigory Potemkin, was married to Vasily Andreyevich Engelhardt. Their six daughters, being nieces of Potemkin, were imperial favorites and featured prominently in the court of Catherine II and the subsequent reign. Potemkin doted on his nieces (and, it is generally assumed in the case of Barbara, Alexandra, and Catherine, had sexual relations) and bequeathed to them some of his great wealth." (Wikipedia)

        Legend of the 5 Nieces - - a harem of his own family.
        "Nothing so shocked his contemporaries as the legend of the five nieces. All the diplomats wrote about it to their captivated monarchs with ill-concealed relist: 'You will get an idea of Russian morality', Corberon told Versailles under its prince new King Louis XVI, 'in the manner in which Prince Potemkin protects his nieces.' In order to underline the horror of this immoral destiny, he added with a shiver, 'There is one who is only twelve years old and who will no doubt suffer the same fate.' Simon Vorontsov was also disgusted: 'We saw Prince Potemkin make  in the imperial palace of which he occupied a part.' What 'scandalous impudence!' The scandal of the nieces was accepted by contemporaries as true -- but did he really seduce all five, even the youngest?" (Potemkin: Catherine the Great's Imperial Partner: 185)

        "The day before the peace celebrations, Count Potemkin received a sad note from his brother-in-law Vasily Engelhardt telling him of the death of his sister Elena Marfa. They had six daughters (the eldest was already married) and a son in the army. The five younger daughters were aged between twenty-one and eight. 'I ask you to take care of them and to take the place of Marfa Alexandrovna. . .', Engelhardt wrote to Potemkin on 5 July. 'By your order, I'll send them to your mother.' There was no reason why their father could bring them up in Smolensk, but Engelhardt, a man of the world, realized his daughters would benefit from the life at Court. Potemkin summoned them to Moscow." (Potemkin: Catherine the Great's Imperial Partner: 149)

        ". . . The other source of his (husband Skavronski) celebrity was the beauty of his wife, Potemkin's niece and sometime lover Catherine Engelhardt. . . Potemkin called Catherine Engelhardt one of the prettiest women in the empire. Comte Roger de Damas declares in his memoirs that Potemkin carried his affection for all his Engelhardt nieces to excess, but Catherine was his favourite. Although she continued to be her uncle's occasional mistress until he died (uncle-niece incest was not uncommon in Russia), she is said to have only 'tolerated' his embraces. But then she tolerated most things: husband, court, finery, all the trappings of her elevated position. . . Potemkin called her his 'angel incarnate', and the Prince de Nassau-Siegen confirmed the justice of the name. The comte de Segur thought that Catherine could fittingly serve as a model for Love itself, and many men duly adored her." (Gooden)
          Louis de Bourbon, Comte de Vermandois slept with two brothers.
          2. Charles de Lorraine, Comte de Marsan
            Jane Digby, later Pamela Harriman had dalliances, while a married woman, with father King Ludwig I of Bavaria and his son King Otto of Greece.


            COMMONERS.
            Marie-Geneviève Radix de Saint-Foix had an affair with:
            1. Louis XV of France in 1750- 1751, and his son
            2. the Dauphin
              THREESOMES OR MENAGE-A-TROIS.
              "Liliane, however, came from a very well known Austrian family, the Fould-Springers. Her mother and father’s marriage that was, in its way, even more complex than her own. Several years into the marriage, after the birth of Liliane and her brother and sister, Baron Fould-Springer one day brought home a very handsome man much younger than himself, with whom he was very infatuated. The younger man became a member of the family as it were and was also befriended by the Baroness Fould-Springer with whom he got on famously. The troika went everywhere together and traveled the world. Evidently it was acceptable and agreeable enough to be accepted by all three individuals because after the Baron Fould-Springer died, his widow, Liliane de Rothschild’s mother, married the younger man. They lived together for the rest of her life. This too was a story known to all in their circle, although never written about until it was told by a son-in-law, the Englishman Allan Pryce-Jones, in a book about his life." (NY Social Diary)