Wednesday, April 1, 2020

Metternich

Metternich
@Wikipedia

Austrian statesman, minister of foreign affairs; & champion of Conservatism.

His titles & honours.
Graf und Furst von Metternich-Winneburg zu Beilstein; Duque Portella
Graf von Konigswart
Knight of the Golden Fleece
Grandee of Spain, First Class

His positions of power:
His Imperial Majesty's Privy Councilor
Court Chamberlain
Court Chancellor
Cabinet Minister
Minister of Foreign Affairs
Prime Minister of the Empire.

Also known as:
born Klemens Lothar Wenzel von Metternich-Winneburg, Furst von Metternich 
Klemens Wenzel Nepomuk Lothar, Furst von Metternich-Winneburg-Beilstein
Klemens, Prince Metternich
Klemens, Furst von Metternich
the Autocrat of Austria
the Butterfly Minister: "The nickname of 'the butterfly Minister' which he gained there told only part of the truth. If he fluttered about, gayest of the diplomatic throng in days when diplomacy was gayer than it is to-day, finding time to have the familiar portrait painted by Lawrence, he never for a moment lost sight of the ends he had in view, above all of the aims he had for Austria. . . ." (Flenley: 23)
the Coachman of Europe, Europe's Coachman

Son of: Franz von Metternich, Prince Metternich & Beatrix von Kagenegg. 

Husband of:
Maria Eleonore von Kaunitz
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1. Maria Eleonore von Kaunitz-Rietberg (1775-1825), mar 1795
" . . . In Vienna in 1794, his mother arranged his exceedingly advantageous marriage with the 19-year-old Eléonore de Kaunitz, wealthy and well-connected grand-daughter of the great eponymous Austrian politician – they were married in the chateau at Austerlitz! . . ." (napoleon.org)
Maria Antonia von Leykam
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Melanie, Grafin Zichy-Ferraris
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3) Melanie, Grafin Zichy-Ferraris (1805-1854), mar 1831

Metternich's spouses.
"Prince Metternich married three times. Eleonore Kaunitz, his first wife, died in 1825 of pthisis. Two of their daughters and their eldest son, Victor, had died of the same disease. He married his second wife, Antoinette de Leykam, in 1827 and she died of complications following the birth of their son, Richard (1829-1895), two years later (January 1829). Two years after that, Metternich married the Hungarian Melanie de Zichy-Ferraris (d. 1854), by whom he had a daughter and two sons. . . ." (napoleon.org)

Physical appearance & personal qualities.
"Metternich considered it his main task to find out about Napoleon's true intentions. He therefore sought to get close to the court whenever an opportunity arose. The women in particular thought that he was ' a reincarnation of Casanova in an Austrian version.' Caroline Bonaparte's biographer describes the look of the youthful envoy as the exact opposite of Murat: tall and slender, elegant gestures, even facial features, blond hair (mildly powdered to appear older), blue eyes with attractive drooping eyelids. He had pale skin, she writes, so page, in fact, that Caroline spoke of a 'cream face' after their first meeting---in any case, he was an attractive man." (Metternich: Strategist and Visionary: 478)

From a portrait by French painter Francois Gerard.
"The French painter François Gérard, who worked at the studio of Jacques-Louis David, painted a portrait of Metternich around this time, in 1810. In it Metternich, then thirty-seven, appears even more youthful, sensitive, with a lingering, scrutinizing expression that is somehow forthcoming and restrained at the same time. . . ." (Metternich: Strategist and Visionary: 478)

Metternich's legendary gallantry.
"After the Austrian catastrophe at Austerlitz and the humiliating treaty of Pressbourg, Metternich was appointed Austrian ambassador to France. He arrived in Paris on 4 August, 1806...
Throughout the period 1806–1808, Metternich was a frequent figure in the salons, and his gallantry was legendary – some of his best-known conquests were Laure Permon (future duchess d'Abrantès) and Caroline Bonaparte (future queen of Naples). . . ." (napoleon.org)

From Mademoiselle George, Napoleon's mistress.
" . . . This famous diplomat was very cheerful [fort gai], very informal, very natural [tres simple], and a very witty mocker. He liked to laugh, this great diplomat. . . ." (Metternich: Strategist and Visionary: 478)

Never overcame his weakness for romantic liaisons.
"Metternich, a notorious harlequin, would have many love affairs over the years, including one with Napoleon's younger sister Caroline, and another with the wife of the French marshal Jean-Andoche Junot. Metternich, indeed, never overcame his weakness for romantic liaisons, those 'secret dashes in hired cabs, rendezvous in ghostly grottoes, and moonlight scampering in and out of the upper-storey windows.' . . . ." (Vienna 1814: How the Conquerors of Napoleon Made Love, War, and Peace: 15) 

Women were Metternich's salt of life.
"Metternich had always been attracted to women and he had no trouble attracting them to him. Women were, as Gentz had observed, his 'salt of life,' and not just his private life at that; his whole diplomatic career had, in large measure, developed thanks to women. His wife had started him off, while the numerous women he had enchanted in the salons of Dresden, Berlin, and Paris had helped in his advance; the gallant diplomat had even managed to build his own international spy ring out of his relations with different women. Caroline Bonaparte, now, as Murat's wife, Queen of Naples, had been his lover. So had Laure Junot, wife of the famous French general and a woman who knew society in Paris as well as the back of her dainty hand. He would soon be the lover of the Princess Lieven, who would open up the secrets of London to him. History and Metternich marched calmly together, hand in hand with his women." (1815: The Roads to Waterloo)

A paragon of breeding and elegance and an inveterate ladies' man.
"Metternich, then thirty-two, came from one of Europe's most illustrious families. A speaker of impeccable French, a staunch conservative in politics, he was a paragon of breeding and elegance and an inveterate ladies' man. The presence of this polished aristocrat would add a sheen to the imperial court that Napoleon was creating. More important, winning over a man of such power---and Napoleon could be quite seductive in private meetings---would help in his grand strategy of making Austria a weak satellite. And Metternich's weakness for women would give Napoleon a way in." (The 33 Strategies of War; 169)

His lovers were:
Lover in 1806.

"Hoping to take advantage of Metternich's weakness for women, Napoleon set up his sister, Caroline Murat, to have an affair with the prince. He learned from her a few pieces of diplomatic gossip, and she told him that Metternich had come to respect him. In turn she also told Metternich that Napoleon was unhappy with his wife, Empress Josephine, who could not bear children; he was considering divorce. Napoleon did not seem upset that Metternich knew such things about his personal life." (The 33 Strategies of War; 170)

"Prince Metternich of the Habsburg dynasty and Caroline had a long history dating back to a romantic liaison in Paris at the time when he served as ambassador to the court of Napoleon. They were two of a kind, venal, aggressively ambitious, supremely egotistical, but star-crossed. The difference now was that he was the ruler and she the ruled. . . ." (Twice a Princess: 74)

"Under the watchful surveillance and protections of her old lover Prince Metternich of the House of Habsburg, who oversaw the smothering of Bonaparte ambitions for the allies, the ambitious Caroline set her sights on Schloss Frohsdorf in the Lanzenkirchen area near Vienna. Built in the 1500s on the ruins of an even earlier castle, when the castle's present owner, Graf von Hoyos, named the exorbitant sum of four hundred thousand silver florins for the property, Caroline accepted without hesitation. She was determined to complete the hegira from defeat to new glories for herself and family." (Twice a Princess: 73)
2) Dorothea von Benckendorff, Duchessa di Dino.

"At last Dorothea Lieven had found a man she felt to be worthy of her, a man to whom she could give her whole heart, a man who would love her absolutely, a man who would fulfill her emotionally and intellectually as well as physically. Clement's instinctive understanding of her innermost thoughts gave Dorothea a special, a precious intimacy missing since her mother's death. Her tender, aesthetic side fulfilled Dorothea's subconscious yearning for her father as much as Clement's powerful position appealed to he ambition. . . ." (Dorothea Lieven: A Russian Princess in London and Paris, 1785-1857: 60)

"Madame Lieven's loyalties were primarily to her tsar who gave the Lievens permission to come or to go. He was in total command all the time as his millions of serfs and slaves knew only too well. Although Dorothea was a supreme patriot she was above all a passionate woman and gave some of her loyalty to her lovers, and particularly to Prince Metternich, the Austrian premier, who had 'the good fortune to know His Imperial Majesty's mind.'" (Wellington the Beau: 166)

Why Dorothea von Lieven as lover: "Clement had known many women; yet, he longed for one desirable more than simply as a woman and a socialite; he wanted a woman who would arouse his deepest feelings and engage his razor sharp and politically focused mind as well. His lengthy letters prove beyond any doubt that Dorothea exactly did that. . . ." (Dorothea Lieven: A Russian Princess in London and Paris, 1785-1857: 60)
General Junot & Laure
@Wikipedia
Lover in 1807.

"Among the many salons of Paris, one stands out in virtue of the twenty-two-year-old host's attractiveness, grace, and intelligence, and because she was at the same time the wife of a courageous general who was as devoted to Napoleon as a 'hunting dog' to his master. Napoleon had ennobled his former adjutant Andoche Junot, as he tended to do in the case of his most faithful military leaders, and he became the Duc d'Abrantes. In 1806 he was still the governor of Paris; one year later, Napoleon appointed him of the commander of the campaign in Portugal. This left Junot's wife with the time and the opportunity to surrender to Metternich's advances; in this case, Metternich once again knew how to combine the pleasurable and the useful. In Laure, he found a glowing admirer who memorialized him in her twenty-five volume memoirs." (Metternich: Strategist and Visionary: 479)

"Laura Junot was twenty-three when Metternich first met her, apparently at a reception in the Junot residence in the Rue Boissy-d'Anglas early in 1807. She had married the courageous but choleric General seven years previously. Madame Junot was an indefatigable flirt, with dancing eyes and a good sense of humour; her husband, who was a couple of years older than Metternich, was devotedly loyal to Napoleon on whose reputation he had climbed to eminence since their first meeting at the siege of Toulon in 1793. . . (I)t is probable that Metternich originally cultivated the Junots in the belief that, like Caroline Murat, they could be able to furnish him with valuable information. But the General was far too bluff and engrossed in his own affairs to give anything away; and Laura was much too silly. By the time Junot was packed off to Spain, Metternich seems to have been infatuated; and by now he was an expert at consoling wives whose husbands were absent at the war. Laura herself has given picturesque details of her passionate romance with Metternich: hired cabs hurriedly changed to elude police agents; a grotto by the bridge at Neuilly; weeping, pleading and remorse; silent declarations of timeless devotion; such stuff as tears are jerked on. Perhaps it really was not at all like that, but so it seemed to Laura writing her account after many years of sentimental reminiscences."(Metternich: Councillor of Europe)

" . . . Metternich's simultaneous affair with Caroline Murat and Laure Junot was the best known of these scandal, for when the jealous Caroline tipped off Junot about his wife's infidelity, and Junot found the incriminating evidence Caroline had guided him to, he attacked his wife with scissors, leaving her half dead, tried to challenge Metternich to a duel and isisted that the Emperor declare war on Austria. Readers of the scandal sheets particularly enjoyed the alleged riposte by Madame Metternich when Junot 'peached' to her: 'The role of Othello ill becomes you.'"(Napoleon: A Biography)

Yekaterina Skavronska
Princess Bagration.
Lover in 1801-1812

"Metternich met eighteen-year-old Katharina Bagration in the salon of Princess Isabella Czartoyska. Though Latvian in origin, Princess Bagration was described by one contemporary as having the softness of an Oriental and the grace of an Andalusian, being rather small, with dark hair and pale skin, she could also be compared to one of Frederick Augustus's finest pieces of Dresden porcelain. Late in the summer of 1802 she gave birth to a daughter, whom she named after the father, Clementine." (1815: The Roads to Waterloo)

" . . . Twelve years earlier, Bagration had married, by order of Tsar Paul I, the Countess Ekaterina Pavlovna Skavronska (1783-1857), whose great-grandfather had been a brother of Tsarina Catherine I and who on her mother's side was a close relative of Prince Grigory Potemkin. There was a significant age difference between Bagration and Skavronska. When the former fell out of favour with Tsar Paul I, he sent his young wife for safety reasons to the royal Court of Saxony in Dresden. It was in this privileged place of refuge for courtly nobles, as yet untouched by the French Revolution, that she came to know the Austrian envoy, Klemens Metternich. It was the beginning of a long-lasting and passionate relationship. Ekaterina Skavronska was not only breathtakingly beautiful but also very intelligent and deeply interested in politics. Her relationship with Metternich would have its highs and lows, partly due to his diplomatic assignments in Berlin and later in Paris, but would again become very intense after his return to Vienna (1809), where Princess Bagration had settled in the meanwhile. . . ." (Religiose Pragung und Politische Ordnung in der Neuzeit: 200)

"...Three great ladies were pre-eminent as hostesses and society leaders, the Princess Adam Czartoryska, the Countess of Courland, with one of whose daughters Metternich afterwards became enamoured, and Princess Bagration. The last-named was in reality a sort of Russian spy employed to further Russian interests at the Saxon Court, and was high in favour at St. Petersburg.  With her Metternich commenced a liaison which lasted until the Vienna Congress.  She is described as small and neat, with a child-like face 'white as alabaster,' and a figure slightly robust but pleasing.  A slight short-sightedness gave her an appearance of timidity.  Her dress was apparently somewhat ultra-fashionable, for she bore the nickname of 'The Naked Angel.'  (Metternich: 33)

Natural offspring:  " . . . On 29 September 1810 a daughter was born of this relationship and she was - significantly enough - called Clementine.  She would go through life with the name Bagration, but it was generally known that she was in fact Metternich's daughter.  Afterwards, the Austrian Chancellor would never lose track of her.  Her son Gustav Blome, who was thus his natural grandson, would also enjoy his interest and support."  (Religiose Pragung und Politische Ordnung in der Neuzeit: 200)
Wilhelmine of Courland
Duchess of Sagan
Lover in 1813-1814.

" . . . (I)f one studies the documents of Metternich prior to or during the Congress, his principal concern seems to have been the love of a woman, Wilhelmine, Duchess of Sagan, a German noble.  Their affair---Metternich was married at the time---lasted from spring of 1813 to the fall of 1814 and resulted in around six hundred letters exchanged between the two. . . 

"The heightened sense of drama with which he was living necessitated, as on other occasions, a recipient of confidences.  Her found her, close at hand, in Wilhelmine of Sagan whom he had known since his days at the Saxon court. Wilhelmine possessed an impressive town palace in Prague and, more conveniently still, a small chateau at Ratiborzitz, on the slopes of the Sudeten mountains only a few miles north of Gitshin.  That summer Wilhelmine became his principal mistress, and her personality continued to captivate him long after the armies had moved away from 'the Duchess of Sagan's paradise' in Bohemia: he maintained a regular correspondence with her throughout the second half of 1813 and for most of the following year, writing late into the night after days of tension and dispute. It is difficult to understand why, once absent from her, he remained bewitched. . .  From his conversations with Gentz it is clear that Metternich had few illusions over Wilhelmine.  Yet, though maddened time and again by the flicker of her fancy, he returned constantly to her flame.  None of his other mistresses ever achieved such mastery of his will. . . ."(Metternich: Councillor of Europe)

Prince Metternich's physical traits & personal qualities:  "Witty and charming, above average height, slim and graceful, 'the Adonis of the Drawing-Room' had fair hair, an aquiline nose, a well-shaped-mouth, a high forehead, and piercing blue eyes:  Sir Thomas Lawrence painted him contemplating his fellow creatures with his habitually impassive expression.  It masked a daunting, politically focused intellect that also cared intensely for beauty... Metternich's many admirable qualities did not, however, include conjugal fidelity.  He had already had several well-noted love affairs with prominent women." (Cromwell: 57)

"In the center of the bustle was Austria's foreign minister, Prince Klemens von Metternich. He was forty-one years old with curly blond hair, pale blue eyes, and the slender toned physique of a fencer. He stood above medium height, and had a handsome, delicate face and a gift for sparkling conversation. Metternich was hailed as the 'Adonis of the Drawing Room." (Vienna 1814: How the Conquerors of Napoleon Made Love, War, and Peace: 15)

Prince Metternich's personal & family background.
"Metternich, the descendant of an old Rhenish noble family, was the son of Franz Georg Karl Graf (count) von Metternich-Winneburg and the Grafin (countess) Beatrix Kagenegg.  His father was then the Austrian envoy to the Rhenish principalities of the empire,  and Metternich spent his youth in the Rhine-Moselle region, for which he retain a lifelong affection."  (Encyclopedia Britannica)

Metternich's other lovers were.
1) Marie-Constance de Caumont de la Force
2) Princess Dolgoruki

"It must be remembered that at this period the profession of diplomacy was, at any rate in Austria, regarded rather as an agreeable occupation than as a science.  It was a means whereby young men of noble birth satisfied their ambition, and it has been well said that 'Divine Right still predominated in diplomacy as among sovereigns.'  And so Metternich, handsome, polished, and popular, went everywhere and knew everybody.  Where pretty ladies were to be found, he was never far absent, and when Goertz paid a visit to Dresden in the summer of 1802, he was introduced by Metternich to a round of gaiety and brilliant society such as he had never experienced before.  Three great ladies were pre-eminent as hostesses and society leaders, the Princess Adam Czartoryska, the Countess of Courland, with one of whose daughters Metternich afterwards became enamoured, and Princess Bagration.  (, pp. 33-34)

Friday, March 27, 2020

Royal Court Ladies & Their Lovers

Charlotte de Sauve
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Charlotte de Sauve
French Valois beauty and courtier

Her lovers were:
4. Henri IV de France in 1573-1576
8. Seigneur d'Avrilly

Wife of:
2. Francois II de La Tremoille, Marquis de Noirmoutier, mar 1584

"Marguerite's implacable enemy Guast remained Henry's trusted advisor. At the time, Guast was romantically involved with Charlotte de Baune, baroness de Sauve, one of Catherine de Medici's ladies-in-waiting, who was also being pursued by both Marguerite's husband and her brother Francis. . . ." (Queens and Mistresses of Renaissance France: 286)

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Jennie Churchill----

Jennie Churchill

Lady Randolph Churchill
(1854-1921)
Daughter of: Leonard Jerome, the King of Wall Street & Clara Hall. (White: 35) 

Wife of:
1. Lord Randolph Churchill, mar 1874.
2. George Cornwallis-West, mar 1900, div 1914)
3. Montagu Phippen Porch (1877-1964), mar 1918.

Jennie's personal and family background.
She was the daughter of Leonard Jerome, " . . . a one-time lawyer and diplomat turned 'King of Wall Street.', and his wife Clara Hall. (White: 35)

Jennie's spouses & offspring.
1) Lord Randolph Churchill, mar 1874
2) George Cornwallis-West, mar 1900, div 1914,

"After John’s death in 1895, Jennie married George Cornwallis-West in 1900, called 'the handsomest man in England’, a Guards officer who was only two weeks older than Winston, then divorced him eleven years later. . . ." (Wikitree)

Married in 1918 Montagu Phippen Porch (1877-1964)

Jennie's spouses.
" . . . She had numerous lovers and admirers including King Edward VII and King Milan of Serbia. She married twice more, her second to a captain in the Scots Guards ended in divorce. A third husband was a British civil servant and they lived in Nigeria with the marriage lasting until her death. . . ." (findagrave.com) 

Jennie's physical appearance and personal qualities.
" . . . Strikingly beautiful, with amber eyes, dark-brown hair, full breasts and an irrepressible lust for life, Jennie was irresistible to men." (Daily Mail, 2008)

How others described Jennie.
" . . . Jennie had an extraordinary beauty. One who saw her described her as 'a dark, lithe figure . . . appearing to be of another texture to those around her---radiant, translucent, intense. A diamond star in her hair, her favorite ornament---its lustre dimmed by the flashing glory of her eye. More of the panther than of the woman in her look.' Margot Asquith, who met Jennie Churchill in Newmarket, also used the feline simile: 'She had a forehead like a panther's and great wild eyes that looked through you.'" (Dreadnaught: Britain, Germany, and the Coming of the Great War: 750)

Jennie's trail of lovers.
"She is said to have had more than 200 lovers, some of them younger than her own son. Strikingly beautiful, with amber eyes, dark-brown hair, full breasts and an irrepressible lust for life, Jennie Jerome was irresistible to men. Earls, lords, counts, even the randy old Prince Of Wales, the future Edward VII, lusted after her. And she willingly complied. When Edward was crowned in 1902, she sat in a special pew in Westminster Abbey, which society wits dubbed 'the loose box' on account of its rather promiscuous occupants. She shared it with half a dozen other royal mistresses, including Alice Keppel and Lillie Langtry." (mailonline.com, 2011, Dec 11)

A squadron of a 100, 200? Men for Lady Churchill.
"The Prince would have been entitled to regard an affair with Jennie as 'safe' because she was known to have a number of lovers, most of them younger than herself. Indeed, during her lifetime she was rumoured to have slept with more than a hundred men, though one must take allowances for gossip and plain jealousy. During the twentieth century this figure seems to have escalated to two hundred, which seems a little excessive , but there was nevertheless a small squadron of men either recognised by her intimates to have been Jennie's lovers, and/or about whom Jennie wrote to Leonie. . . ." (The Churchills: In Love and War: 164)

" . . . Jennie took lovers; one estimate was that she had two hundred. Society did not doubt that one conquest was Albert Edward, Prince of Wales. Jennie did not flaunt her lovers and Randolph---who had no choice---accepted them, although on one occasion he ordered the Prince of Wales out of his house and on another, he attacked one of her companions with his fists. . . ." (Dreadnaught: 751)

Jennie's list of lovers -- the known and the unknown.
". . . Apart from those already mentioned -- Charles Kinsky, Freddy Wolverton and others -- among the rest were Hugh Warrender, Henry de Breteuil, Baron Hirsch, Kincaid Smith, Paul Bourget, Sir Edgar Vincent, William Waldorf Astor, Lord Dunraven, Thomas Trafford, Norman Forbes-Robertson and Harry Cust. From her correspondence can be gleaned others whose full names are not given -- someone called Simon, and another -- an Italian -- called Casati. Then there was John Delacour, whom Randolph intended to cite as correspondent if they were to divorce, and a number of men in Ireland who were written about but unnamed in her correspondence. And besides her lovers, Jennie seemed to be able to attract and impress men of power and character who never hopped into her bed, and these -- Lord Salisbury, the Duke of Cambridge and Lord Cromer to name three -- were all grist to Winston's mill, contacts to be exploited to achieve his ends." (The Churchills: In Love and War: 165)

How many men and who were they? The 'known' lover.
"How could one possibly quantify such a figure, and who were all these men? The eminently readable William Manchester in The Last Lion gave a list of her lovers -- numbering fewer than twenty -- but no sources. He stated categorically: 'Her lovers are known [italics added] to include Kinsky, Henri Breteuil, Thomas Trafford, Baron Hirsch, Sir Edgar Vincent (later Viscount D'Abernon), Lord Dunraven, Herbert von Bismarck, Henri le Tonnelie (sic), Norman Forbes Robertson, Hugh Warrender of the Grenadier Guards, a cavalry officer named Kincaid Smith, the American Bourke Cockran, [Paul] Bourget, William Waldorf Astor, Harry Cust, a soldier named Taylor, a man called Simon, an Italian named Casati, and Albert Edward of the house of Saxe-Coburg . . . later King Edward VII.'" (American Jennie: The Remarkable Life of Lady Randolph Churchill: 123)

Jennie's 'known' but unmentioned lovers.
"It's an arbitrary list. Breteuil and Le Tonnelier are one and the same man. Major Caryl Ramsden -- a source of amusement for the Prince of Wales -- is not mentioned, nor is the shadowy John Delacour, named by Randolph in a threatened divorce case who flitted in and out of their lives, nor is 'Star Falmouth' believed by the Leslies to the the father of Winston's brother Jack, nor is Marion Crawford, the American author who lived mostly in Italy. Crawford's name has not survived in the gossipy letters between the sisters, but Clare Sheridan knew about her aunt's attraction for him. . . ." (American Jennie: 123)
Lady Randy's lovers were: 

Royal lovers.

"The Churchills' position in London society, and Jennie's ambitions for her husband and sons, brought them into regular contact with Prince Albert Edward, Queen Victoria's heir, known as Bertie. The Prince was renowned for his sexual appetite as a string of mistresses, and reportedly held wife-swapping parties in his London home. Jennie, a dark beauty who has also been characterised as a sexual adventurer, did not escape his attention. . . (A)s early as 1889, Lord Randolph had returned home to find the Prince and his wife together, scandalously unchaperoned, and angrily threw the Prince out. . . ." (Standard)

Milan I Obrenovic of Serbia 
Milan I Obrenovic of Serbia (1854-1901)
Lover in 1867.

"Milan I (1854-1901) of Serbia is one of a number of eastern European princelings who can be roughly equated with the King who figures in 'A Scandal in Bohemia'. He was known for his extramarital affairs, including one with Jennie Churchill, although no contraltos are mentioned. . . ." (Lives Beyond Baker Street)

"Jennie met one other large character in those weeks who was destined to play a role in the Jerome sisters' lives: the exiled King Milan of Serbia. When she first met Milan he had just abdicated in favour of his son after a fierce quarrel with and divorce from his wife Natalie. Jennie did not warm to Milan, finding him uncouth and extravagant. She described him in her memoirs as 'one of the most uncivilised beings I have ever encountered. A short, thick set man with inky black hair and moustache and of little or no education save what his natural intelligence helped him to pick up, he was notwithstanding, an agreeable personality.'" (American Jennie: 172)

Aristocratic lovers:
Derrick Westenra
5th Baron Rossmor
@Google
Derrick Westenra, 5th Baron Rossmor (1853-1921)
Irish noble, soldier & author.

Husband of: Mittie Naylor, mar 1882 [Fam1:Peerage] 

" . . . (T)he [5th] Lord Rossmore (was) known as 'Derry,' being one of the brightest spots of the Prince of Wales's set, and author of some lively memoirs called Things I Can Tell.' . . . Born in 1853 . . . Derrick Warner William Westenra, fifth Baron Rossmore, peers out in his frontispiece photo with a stern, even gaze. He is a portly figure, white-haired and white-ascoted, with a subtly dandyish close-trimmed moustache curled up at the tips and the small, pronounced exclamation mark of a tufted goatee just under his lower lip." (Mapping Norwood: An Irish American Memoir: 121)

Baron Rossmor's other lover was:
1. Mary Cornwallis-West.
Edgar Vincent 
1st Viscount d'Abernon 
@Wikipedia
Edgar Vincent,1st Viscount d'Abernon (1857-1941) 
British financier, politician & diplomat.

Son of: Rev. Sir Frederick Vincent, 11th Baronet & Maria Copley Young 

Husband of: Lady Helen Venetia Duncombe, daughter of the 1st Earl of Feversham, mar 1890. 

Physical appearance & personal qualities.
"There was one who especially admired her at this time: Edgar Vincent, lately commissioned into the Coldstream Guards. Vincent, three years younger than Jennie, was a lowly subaltern, son of a rector, who happened to be stationed in Ireland at the time he first set eyes on her. Later he became well known as Sir Edgar Vincent, Viscount D'Abernon, financier, politician and diplomat, described by Margot Tennant (later Asquith) as among 'the four best looking men I ever saw'. He was not only handsome, but brilliantly intelligent, a linguist, superb horseman, gambler, witty raconteur and on account of his extramarital affairs, nicknamed 'the Piccadilly stallion'. . . ." (American Jennie: 88) 

"It was quite remarkable the number of important posts he held while yet a young man. When Financial Adviser to the Egyptian Government he was only twenty-five or twenty-six. He was exceedingly good-looking and knew it, exceedingly clever and knew it; perhaps a trifle spoilt , but that was the fault of the women. They are responsible for making men strut and preen themselves. As is usual with great brains, he was a bit of egotist, which is only natural. . . He began life in the Coldstream Guards. . . ." (Further Indiscretions by a Woman of No Importance: 340) 

Achievements & Honours.
Chairman of the Central Control Board (Liquor Traffic) (1915-1920); Member of Parliament (1899-1906); Baron D'Abernon (1914); British Ambassador to Germany (1920); Privy Counsellor (1920); Knight Commander of the Order of St. Michael and St. George, Knight Grand Cross (1917); Order of the Bath (1926); Viscount D'Abernon (1926).
Evelyn Boscawen
7th Viscount Falmouth 
Evelyn Boscawen, 7th Viscount Falmouth.

". . . "'His great successes were racing for he won Derbies. . . Jennie put her seduction entirely on him. You can calculate when they first met by when Jack was born.' In fact they had first met at Ascot races, shortly after Jennie was married. Seven years older than Jennie, he was a bachelor at this time and did not marry until he was forty in 1890. Jennie had many visits from the 'Star Man' and his name occurs regularly in the diaries and notes between the Jerome sisters. . . . " (Sebba: 98) 

Doubtful paternity.
"And so, if Randolph was not Jack's father, who might have been? The Leslie family believed it was Star Falmouth, a bug and broad military man with a thick moustache -- the sort of Physical characteristics that appealed to Jennie. She told her mother about his amazing moustache when she first described him. . . . " (Sebba: 97) 

Physical appearance & personal qualities.
". . . From an early age, hunting and racing seem to have been his passion. 'Handsome and stupid' is a description Anita Leslie uses, but she adds that he was not too stupid to become assistant military secretary to the Duke of Marlborough in Ireland and to keep Jennie Churchill's affection all through her life. . . . " (Sebba: 98)

Personal & family background.
". . . Evelyn Boscawen, the seventh Viscount Falmouth, was, like most of his family for generations before him, educated at Eton. They were descended from the Boscawens, an ancient naval family. But, unlike them, he did not pass into sixth form nor did he follow his father to Oxford. He was sent into the army class and then the Coldstream Guards, where he eventually became a colonel. . . . " (Sebba: 97)
Frederic Glyn, 4th Baron Wolverton 
Frederick Glyn, 4th Baron Wolverton (1864-1932)
Baron Wolverton 1888
Lover in 1892.

British banker & Conservative politician.
Vice-Chamberlain of the Household (Balfour Government (1902-1905).

" . . . By the summer of 1892 she had formed a new attachment, one of which Randolph did not approve. He admitted the relationship in private conversations with Natty Rothschild: 'I suppose you know she is living with Freddy Wolverton,' he told his friend. Natty immediately shared the news with Loulou Harcourt. Randolph asked Jennie not to go to a party which Wolverton was giving that July, preferring her to see Claude Lowther, an eccentric art collector whom he considered safer." (American Jennie: 186)

" . . . When Jennie became friendly with Freddy he was in his late twenties, titled and an immensely rich landowner. Jennie may never have felt the same profound love for Freddy. . . ." (American Jennie: 186)

" . . . [D]uring one of Kinsky's long absences from England, she embarked upon a new sexual relationship, this time with a young man called Freddy Wolverton who begged her to end her relationship with Kinsky. . . It concerned Freddy Wolverton. She had not written to him since leaving England, and when she and Randolph reached Hong Kong there had been a cable from him, advising in abrupt telegraphic jargon that he considered their relationship at an end. There was little she could do, as she escorted her dying husband around the world." (The Churchills: In Love and War: 111)

Lord Wolverton's personal & family background.
"Frederic, Lord Wolverton, was a nephew of Gladstone's friend and supporter, the late second Lord Wolverton, a man of great wealth and generosity who had been Postmaster General for a brief period in 1886. . . ." (American Jennie: 186)
George Cornwallis-West
George Cornwallis-West (1874-1951)
British officer

"Sometime that year (1898), Jennie met the strikingly handsome, George Cornwallis-West, a lieutenant in the Scots Guards. It is likely that they met at the home of General Sir Ian and Jean, Lady Hamilton... Victorian Society believed George to be the Prince of Wales's illegitimate son because George's mother, Mary (called Patsy in the family), had been his first lover---when she was only sixteen---and the Prince retained a high regard for her...." (Lee & Lee)
Henri Le Tonnelier
8th Marquis de Breteuil
@Wikipedia
Henri Le Tonnelier, 8th Marquis de Breteuil (1848-1916) 

" . . . As to the Marquise de Breteuil above, she was Marcelite Garner married at Pau to Henri Charles Joseph le Tonnelie (sic), Marquis de Breteuil, whose continued devotion to Jennie Jerome, another one-time Holy Trinity parishioner, long after her marriage to Lord Randolph Churchill at Paris in 1874, has been told." (The History of the American Pro-Cathedral of the Holy Trinity, Paris: 515)
Herbert von Bismarck
@Wikipedia 
Herbert von Bismarck, 2nd Furst von Bismarck (1849-1904)

" . . . Count Herbert Bismarck (was) an enormous man with an equally large reputation for womanising. Herbert Bismarck had just emerged from a very public divorce scandal involving a well-known singer. He and Jennie were immediately attracted and their names romantically linked for some years. 'A kindly man' is how Jennie tactfully recalls him in her Reminiscences. 'Although to English ideas he may perhaps have seemed a little rough and uncouth . . . he left many friends to deplore his premature death." (American Jennie: 166] 
Karl, 8th Prince Kinsky
@Google 
Karl Kinsky, 8th Prince Kinsk (1858-1919)
Austro-Hungarian ambassador to England 

Son of: Ferdinand Bonaventura, 7th Prince Kinsky & Marie von Liechtenstein.

Husband of: Elisabeth, Grafin von Wolf-Metternich zur Gracht (1874-1909)

Kinsky was everything she desired in a lover.
" . . . Charles Andreas Kinsky . . . was the man Jennie loved best all her life. He was everything she desired in a lover: linguist, pianist, brilliant sportsman and champion jockey, devastatingly good-looking heir to the fabulous Palais Kinsky in Vienna as well as to the Kinsky legend." (American Jennie: 120) 

The social hero of the hour.
"Jennie crowded her life that year with politics, the Prince of Wales, her husband's illness, her house, the pulsing whirl of an intense social life, and a new lover. During the summer of 1883, Count Charles Kinsky rode his own chestnut mare, 'Zoedone,' in the Grand National and became the first amateur ever to win that race---despite 14-1 odds. They toasted him in all the racing clubs, named drinks after him, made him the social hero of the hour." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill) 

First encounter of lovers emotionally made for each other.
"But Jennie also began an affair that would take her heart. She may have first met the handsome Count Charles Rudolf Ferdinand Andreas Kinsky in London in 1881, but it's more likely that they had met in Ireland earlier, when he was visiting with Empress Elisabeth of Austria. Born in Vienna, Kinsky was four years younger than Jennie---at five foot seven he was slight in figure, but extraordinarily handsome, with compelling blue eyes. He would become the talk of the town as the first amateur to win England's Grand National Steeplechase on his own chestnut mare Zoedone, and eighteen years later he would inherit the title of Prince Carl Kinsky. Since he was a fiery young man, impulsive and romantic, he and Jennie were emotionally made for each other." (Best Little Stories from the Life and Times of Winston Churchill: 380) 

Kinsky's physical appearance & personal qualities.
"Jennie saw much of the Prince of Wales during that time, and she saw even more of Count Kinsky. Kinsky was still the hero of the hour in England because of his victory in the Grand National. Every man wanted him at his table and a long waiting list of women wanted him in their boudoirs. He had not only brawn but brain. He was handsome, charming, a rising diplomat with a talent for words, a sparkling pianist, a man with an easy laugh and a firm grip. Jeannie's brother-in-law Moreton Frewen called Kinsky 'the best Austrian that ever was,' and printed his photograph in his memoirs. . . ." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill) 

The man she had loved most was like 'an opium' to her.
But nothing had shattered Jennie's illusions and darkened her future more than the sudden marriage of the man she had loved most, Count Charles Rudolf Andreas Kinsky. Jennie had once written that Kinsky was 'like opium' for her. A young Austrian diplomat of noble lineage, he was extraordinarily handsome, with the kind of good looks that won a woman without his making any effort. A brilliant young man, he wrote books about international diplomacy; musically talented, he played the piano excellently. He was charming, with old-world manners but a modern wit. Above all, he was a spectacular horseman and a national hero in Great Britain, the first foreigner to have won the Grand National on his own horse. And he was in love with Jennie, desperately so." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill) 

A love couched in the most guarded references.
"By coincidence, Jennie had also just begun the most romantic of her various liaisons, this with another great Victorian equestrian, Lord Randolph's friend, the handsome and elegant Hungarian Count Charles Rudolph Ferdinand Andreas Kinsky. Unlike Lord Randolph, Kinsky was a man of great physical strength and easy charm, and he became the hero of London society by winning the Grand National in 1886. The combination of horsemanship, European title, and great high spirits made the Count irresistible to Jennie, and their love affair became the great obsession of their lives. But as always, Jennie had her family and her position in society to consider. Her diary gives only the most guarded references to Count Kinsky." (The Private Lives of Winston Churchill) 

Kinsky's personal & family background.
"The handsome, dashing Charles Rudolf Ferdinand Andreas Kinsky was twenty-five---four years younger than Jennie---had served as honorary attached at the Austro-Hungarian Embassy in London since 1881, and had been made Imperial Chamberlain early in 1883. His father was Ferdinand, seventh Prince Kinsky, whom Jennie probably met when he toured Ireland with the Empress of Austria in 1879. Count Kinsky's mother was a Liechtenstein Princess, and the whole family was branched deep into the heritage of European history." (Jennie: The Life of Lady Randolph Churchill) 

Affair's end & aftermath.
"From San Francisco, Jennie and Randolph, Dr. Keith, and the remaining manservant set off next for Japan. Randolph only became visibly more ill, more difficult to deal with. More angry scenes . . . and the second servant was sent home. After Japan, Randolph insisted that they visit Burma, which he had been so instrumental in annexing for the British Empire years before. And to top off all of Jennie's other miseries, she received a telegram from Count Kinsky announcing his engagement to Countess Elizabeth Wolff Metternich zur e Gacht. Jenny was devastated, and her subsequent letters to Clara shows it: 'I HATE IT. I shall return without a friend in the world & too old to make any more now.' And then to Leonie, while steaming to Egypt from India: 'I suppose Charles [Count Kinsky] has written you about his engagement he wire it to me---and from his last letter I wasn't expecting it . . . Oh, Leonie darling, do you think it is too late to stop it? Nothing is impossible.'" (Best Little Stories from the Life and Times of Winston Churchill: 393)
Luis Pinto de Soveral
1st Marquess of Soveral
the Adonis of Diplomacy
@Wikipedia
Luis Pinto de Soveral, 1st Marques do Soveral (1851-1922)

Portuguese aristocrat & diplomat.
Minister of Foreign Affairs 1895

Son of:
Eduardo Pinto de Soveral, Visconde de Sao Luis & Maria da Piedade Paes de Sande e Castro.
William Waldorf Astor
1st Baron Astor
@Wikipedia 
William Waldorf Astor, 1st Baron Astor (1848-1919) 

"While being the Prince's current favorite mistress, Jennie also continued an affair with the recently widowed William Waldorf Astor, whose wife, Mary, had also died in 1894. Astor was a severe if distinguished-looking man with an excellent intellect and a keen interest in history... Astor wanted to marry Jennie, but she would not have him, despite his millions, as she found him to staid a character. . . ." (The Churchills: A Family Portrait: 87)
Windham Thomas Wyndham-Quin
4th Earl of Dunraven 
Windham Thomas Wyndham-Quin, 4th Earl of Dunraven (1841-1926)
Irish journalist, landowner, entrepreneur, sportsman & politician

Commoner lovers:
Bourke Cockran
@Wikipedia 
Bourke Cockran (1854-1923)
American politician. 

" . . . (W)ithin weeks of Randolph's death Jenny was already involved in a passionate fling in Paris. The man was Bourke Cockran, a brilliant silver-tongues orator, lawyer and American Congressman. Both had recently been widowed, and they spent all their time together. Leonie, also staying at Avenue Kleber that summer, was attracted to Cockran too, but she had generously 'stepped back' because 'poor Jennie' who had been so unhappy was in desperate need of a romance. Jennie's family were fully aware that she had an affair with Cockran that summer, and in any other newly widowed woman this would have been regarded as more than shocking. But in Jennie's case she had lived with Randolph platonically for so many years that her undeniable sadness at his death was not linked in any way to her sexual needs; and she was on the rebound from Kinsky. This latest affair between two tempestuous individuals was passionate but not necessarily very comfortable -- a niece described it as 'the clash of two cymbals'. But by the time Cockran returned to the USA in late summer the liaison had run its course; the couple parted fondly but without any deep regret, and would remain friends." [The Churchills: In Love and War: 117-] 

Caryl Ramsden (1868-1941)
British military officer

"In the meantime, Jennie had attracted another young lover, Major Caryl Ramsden, an officer in the Seaforth Highlanders. His name crops up in letters between Jennie and her sons from 1897. 'Beauty Ramsden,' as he was nicknamed, had been posted to Cairo, where an expedition was being assembled under Horatio Herbert Kitchener . . . Jennie thought she might visit Ramsden in Egypt. . . Jennie stayed with Ramsden at the Continental Hotel, Cairo. . . At the end of her stay, she left for Port Said, only to find out that her homeward ship had been delayed. Returning to the hotel, she hoped to spend another night with Ramsden, she entered his room without knocking and found him embracing Lady Maxwell, the wife of General John Maxwell. The row she kicked up was heard throughout the hotel. . . ." (The Churchills: A Family Portrait) 

Caryl Ramsden's other lover was:
1. Louisa, Lady Maxwell.

"Jennie's love affair that winter came to an unexpected end. . . When, on reaching Port Said, she was advised that her ship would be delayed for several days, she impulsively rushed back to Cairo hoping to spend a final few hours with Ramsden. On entering his hotel room unannounced, in order to surprise him, it was she who was surprised, for she discovered her lover in a compromising situation with Louisa, Lady Maxwell, wife of his commanding officer. . . . " (The Churchills: In Love and War: 162)

Casati
an Italian. 

Flower.
Henry Cockayne-Cust
Henry Cockayne-Cust (1861-1917)
English politician, editor & journalist. 

Hugh Warrender 
Grenadier Guards. 

" . . . In the summer, Jennie was seen out with a handsome, boyish, young officer of the Grenadier Guards, the twenty-seven-year-old Hugh Warrender. She arrived with him at Cowes Week on the Isle of Wight in August. . . Warrender was genuinely in love with her and would have married her. There is a group of photograph of Jennie, Leonie, Winston, Jack, and Hugh, taken that week. Warrender looks impossibly young." (Lovell: 86)

John Delacour (1841-?) 
He did not allow his King to choose 'his' friends for him:
"For Jerome and Randolph, as well as for the principal protagonists, the affair had permanent consequences. The Prince of Wales declared them personae non grata; not only would he not meet the Churchills at any house in London but he let it be known that he would not go to any establishment were they were received. One stalwart who loudly resisted the royal pressure was the Irish adventurer and former lieutenant in the 11th Hussars, John Delacour. Delacour, a debonair friend of Randolph's, who was to play another key role in Jennie's life a decade later, told the Prince: 'Sir, I allow no man to choose my friends.' It was a brave pose but perhaps not surprising for one who was no stranger to the divorce courts himself, having been named as co-respondent, but found not guilty of adultery, in May 1876." (American Jennie: 80) 

Personal & family background.
"John Delacour was a man surrounded by scandal since his birth in 1841. His mother, a Galway beauty called Josephine Handcock, was mistress of Ulick John de Burgh, fourteenth Earl and first Marquis of Clanricarde, a former ambassador to Russia and a notoriously cruel absentee Irish landlord. Their illegitimate son was passed around among relatives, his name changing from John de Burgh to John Delacour, until, aged eleven, his natural mother died and he inherited a fortune from her estates. But he gambled on cards and horses and by the time he was twenty-one had lost most of it having been forced to relinquish his inheritance for a mere 4,500 pounds. By the time he rallied to Randolph's support in 1876 he had sold his commission in the army and devoted himself to London society and clubs." (American Jennie: 80) 

"Passionless she was not. And John Delacour's involvement in this story is not necessarily what it appears, that he was another of Jennie's lovers, although they were undoubtedly close. It is possible that, by allowing himself to be cited as co-respondent, he was doing Randolph a favour. Delacour was a loyal if occasional friend who strikes an increasingly pathetic figure, short of funds, mentioned, if at all, in the correspondence for his poor health and financial difficulties. In 1890 Delacour eventually married a north-country heiress, Theresa Mary Towneley. Since his address was listed as 76 Eaton Place he cannot have been as poor as all that. Earl Dunraven describes him as 'a type of the idle rich (though he was not rich) that does not, I think, any longer exist'. . . ." (American Jennie: 149) 

John Strange Jocelyn.
" . . . When Winston was seven, his mother spent time on the Irish estate of Colonel John Strange Jocelyn, a famous horseman. Jennie became pregnant, and when the child was born named it John Strange Churchill . . . Winston's only brother." (Massey: 751)

Marion Crawford (1854-1909).
American playwright & novelist.

"Crawford, playwright and novelist, was a ladies' man of legendary and irresistible charm, a romantic in his life and writing who personified the American dream of escape. There were frequent rumours of a rift in his marriage. He was a friend and admirer of Vittoria Sermoneta, who may have introduced him to . . . . " (American Jennie: 323)

Maurice de Hirsch (1831-1896)
German philanthropist

"Hard-pressed Clara was now persuaded to host dinner parties for potential investors, one of whom was Baron Moritz de Hirsch, the Paris-based Jewish philanthropist who was also close to the Prince of Wales. Jennie had known the Baron and his wife Clara for some time, but it was not until the 190-s that his name appears regularly in the correspondence. De Hirsch is one of those 'known' to have been one of Jennie's lovers, accordting to William Manchester in The Last Lion. The evidence is flimsy but the idea is not impossible. . . ." (American Jennie: 176)

Norman Forbes-Robertson.

Paul Bourget.
French novelist

Ronald Kincaid Smith
British cavalry officer.

" . . . Another of Churchill's companions on the voyage was Captain Ronald Kincaid-Smith, who was rumoured to have been romantically attached to Winston's mother. . . . " (Churchill's First War: Young Winston at War with the Afghans: 103)

"Jennie remembered to send Winston the photos he requested of her 'as the wicked 'Theodora,'' and she also asked him to give one to Kincaid-Smith, a handsome Captain in Winston's outfit with whom she had been corresponding. Winston knew about this correspondence and perhaps was demonstrating a pang of jealousy when he deprecated Kincaid-Smith's polo plaing, which, he said, 'has not got the dash of younger men.'" (Jennie: The Life of the American Beauty: n.p.)

Simon.

Taylor
a soldier.

Thomas Trafford.
"Miss Leslie seems at least in part motivated in her writing by a wish to correct certain inferences made in Mr. Martin's earlier book about Jen nie, not listed in her bibliography. Yet she does not convincingly contradict any of Mr. Martin's fascinating innuendoes such as that John Strange got more than his name from Lord Jocelyn, or that when Lord Randolph took his favorite traveling companion, Thomas Trafford, to India, Jennie was “bitter about being left behind.” The whisper, Mr. Martin adds, “was that Randolph Churchill was homosexual.” Miss Leslie indeed tries hard to set the record straight, but succeeds only in applying a not very convincing coat of white wash to the ebullient Jennie who might, or might not, have been grateful to her great niece such a service." (NYT)